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She's cut me off, now what?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 328600" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there.</p><p></p><p>I agree with your husband. She is 33 years old and will never grow up or hit rock bottom and get help if you keep supporting her. What will she do when you're gone?</p><p></p><p>I think she sounds like she may have borderline personality disorder. Here's a link. I totally agree with reading the suggested books and I'll add one. If she cuts you off, that is typical for borderline when they don't get their way. Not saying she has it for sure, but...read the symptoms and be the judge...she is way too old for you to pay her way. If my 32 year old asked me to pay for his teeth, regardless of how bad they were (and they're bad in her case because she waited) I would just tell him to find a free clinic or save up. in my opinion by continuing to support her, you enable her. If you give into her emotional blackmail, she will just cut you off cold again, when you do something shes doesn't like. She needs a lot of help, but YOU can't give her what she needs.She needs serious therapy. (((Hugs))). Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 328600, member: 1550"] Hi there. I agree with your husband. She is 33 years old and will never grow up or hit rock bottom and get help if you keep supporting her. What will she do when you're gone? I think she sounds like she may have borderline personality disorder. Here's a link. I totally agree with reading the suggested books and I'll add one. If she cuts you off, that is typical for borderline when they don't get their way. Not saying she has it for sure, but...read the symptoms and be the judge...she is way too old for you to pay her way. If my 32 year old asked me to pay for his teeth, regardless of how bad they were (and they're bad in her case because she waited) I would just tell him to find a free clinic or save up. in my opinion by continuing to support her, you enable her. If you give into her emotional blackmail, she will just cut you off cold again, when you do something shes doesn't like. She needs a lot of help, but YOU can't give her what she needs.She needs serious therapy. (((Hugs))). Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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