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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 219917" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkred">Hugs MB...At least you know you're not alone in this. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkred">I am still adjusting to having easy child home...she's a bit of slob and very lazy when it comes to cleaning up after her dog. We've had a few 'run-ins' about that and other stuff in recent weeks. It's just getting to me, the honeymoon of having my easy child back home is pretty much over. I even found myself saying to myself the other day how I can't wait till she and difficult child are out for good...that I no longer cared if they stuck around here or moved miles away! Yikes.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkred">In addition to the note you will hang in her room, how about you make a note for yourself? A note that spells out the ways in which you need to remember to put yourself first and care for your health, etc...and make a secondary list of things you can let go of, things that you can let roll off your back...things that aren't really that important. Each day you can look at your list and make a daily committment to take care of you first. You may also want to put on there that 'this is temporary'. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkred">Will you be giving her a time line/deadline to find a new place? If not, have you thought about it, perhaps by June or something? I am thinking of telling easy child something like that in the Spring I think. It depends on how she does in the next couple of months. Good luck; at least you have a little time to adjust to the idea.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 219917, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred]Hugs MB...At least you know you're not alone in this. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred]I am still adjusting to having easy child home...she's a bit of slob and very lazy when it comes to cleaning up after her dog. We've had a few 'run-ins' about that and other stuff in recent weeks. It's just getting to me, the honeymoon of having my easy child back home is pretty much over. I even found myself saying to myself the other day how I can't wait till she and difficult child are out for good...that I no longer cared if they stuck around here or moved miles away! Yikes.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred]In addition to the note you will hang in her room, how about you make a note for yourself? A note that spells out the ways in which you need to remember to put yourself first and care for your health, etc...and make a secondary list of things you can let go of, things that you can let roll off your back...things that aren't really that important. Each day you can look at your list and make a daily committment to take care of you first. You may also want to put on there that 'this is temporary'. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkred]Will you be giving her a time line/deadline to find a new place? If not, have you thought about it, perhaps by June or something? I am thinking of telling easy child something like that in the Spring I think. It depends on how she does in the next couple of months. Good luck; at least you have a little time to adjust to the idea.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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