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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 180325" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Wow! And for this third kid to say they were not in trouble. That person will soon make fun of the others for being afraid of the arrest. Third person will try to appear very tough in their eyes "No big deal - Let's do it again - Nothing will ever happen to us - See, nothing happened to me, just a trip to the jail and parents came and took me to a movie." </p><p></p><p>If the parents of the third kid really did take her to a movie, than she really does have deep deep issues to deal with. When parents ignore the bad behavior that will lead to bigger problems, they are adding to their child's problems. </p><p> </p><p>Avoiding that kid at all costs would be my advise. I always tell easy child that kids can not solve each other's problems - easy child has a friend who continously gets involved in bad news because she believes she can help turn the other kid around to stop the behavior. </p><p> </p><p>If that person really was at the movies with her parent's permission (and I would question anything she says), than she is trying to get her parent's attention in bad ways. She will continue to look for "friends" to help validate her actions because she knows she is doing wrong but if she can get her "friends" to help her it will not be so scary.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 180325, member: 5096"] Wow! And for this third kid to say they were not in trouble. That person will soon make fun of the others for being afraid of the arrest. Third person will try to appear very tough in their eyes "No big deal - Let's do it again - Nothing will ever happen to us - See, nothing happened to me, just a trip to the jail and parents came and took me to a movie." If the parents of the third kid really did take her to a movie, than she really does have deep deep issues to deal with. When parents ignore the bad behavior that will lead to bigger problems, they are adding to their child's problems. Avoiding that kid at all costs would be my advise. I always tell easy child that kids can not solve each other's problems - easy child has a friend who continously gets involved in bad news because she believes she can help turn the other kid around to stop the behavior. If that person really was at the movies with her parent's permission (and I would question anything she says), than she is trying to get her parent's attention in bad ways. She will continue to look for "friends" to help validate her actions because she knows she is doing wrong but if she can get her "friends" to help her it will not be so scary. [/QUOTE]
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