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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 569689" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I am with Susie on this one after I read my son's Special Education file years ago. I wasnt smart enough not to allow full disclosure between all agencies back then and when my son's HS had me hand carry his Special Education binder from one school to another...well I took advantage of the time to have a sit down lunch and really read through it. I was astounded by some of the things I found in it. </p><p></p><p>There were things in there that had absolutely nothing to do with his education. There were mental health records from when he was 4 years old and he was in a Children's Day Treatment program and one of the psychiatric assistants made a note in his file that said "child sometimes comes to center in mismatched clothing and has shoes untied." Uhh, sorry. He picked out his own clothes sometimes and stepped on his shoe laces at times. I did have 3 boys. "Mother isnt always as consistent as we would like. Child doesnt seem to improve with behavior charts as we hoped." Oh really. And that was my fault? LOL. Sure maybe I could have done better, I wont lie. And my all time favorite was "Child wearing his oldest brothers clothing over a body cast." He was in a full upper body case and Billy's pullover shirts were the only things that would fit him because it was so bulky. He did wear sweat pants that fit him on his lower half. </p><p></p><p>Needless to say I sat there at lunch and did my own editing of that folder. What I didnt want in it got pulled and sent to the trash can. The school didnt need to know those things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 569689, member: 1514"] I am with Susie on this one after I read my son's Special Education file years ago. I wasnt smart enough not to allow full disclosure between all agencies back then and when my son's HS had me hand carry his Special Education binder from one school to another...well I took advantage of the time to have a sit down lunch and really read through it. I was astounded by some of the things I found in it. There were things in there that had absolutely nothing to do with his education. There were mental health records from when he was 4 years old and he was in a Children's Day Treatment program and one of the psychiatric assistants made a note in his file that said "child sometimes comes to center in mismatched clothing and has shoes untied." Uhh, sorry. He picked out his own clothes sometimes and stepped on his shoe laces at times. I did have 3 boys. "Mother isnt always as consistent as we would like. Child doesnt seem to improve with behavior charts as we hoped." Oh really. And that was my fault? LOL. Sure maybe I could have done better, I wont lie. And my all time favorite was "Child wearing his oldest brothers clothing over a body cast." He was in a full upper body case and Billy's pullover shirts were the only things that would fit him because it was so bulky. He did wear sweat pants that fit him on his lower half. Needless to say I sat there at lunch and did my own editing of that folder. What I didnt want in it got pulled and sent to the trash can. The school didnt need to know those things. [/QUOTE]
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