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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 421574" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am going to agree with both Pataricia and Marguerite. Patricia's post was WONDERFUL.</p><p></p><p>I am very puzzled as to why you will not seek outside help in dealing with this child. You do seem to minimize his violence. Even if it gets better because YOU adapt to him, the world ill not adapt to him. Example: He is in a school with five children and an understanding teacher. This is all well and good, but could he function in a larger classroom with teachers who are less understanding? If not, he is different from most children and you are adapting his environment to his "different" behavior. You can't do this forever however.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion he does need <em><strong>outside </strong></em>help. And I also must chime in that he does have Asperger traits. Is this something shameful in France? I'm really curious. It is very unusual for a parent to try to do everything alone. Since we are so emotionally involved in the child, it is also very difficult to do the right thing. I also agree that trying to explain and/or negotiate with a four year old is rather a puzzling tactic. He is likely to get harder to raise as he gets older, especially if he gets no help. Also, you don't KNOW what is wrong with him. You are guessing that he has ADHD maybe because he is active. But many issues cause hyperactivity. </p><p>Whatever may be the problem, it is better to face it than to deny it. Just my two cents <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 421574, member: 1550"] I am going to agree with both Pataricia and Marguerite. Patricia's post was WONDERFUL. I am very puzzled as to why you will not seek outside help in dealing with this child. You do seem to minimize his violence. Even if it gets better because YOU adapt to him, the world ill not adapt to him. Example: He is in a school with five children and an understanding teacher. This is all well and good, but could he function in a larger classroom with teachers who are less understanding? If not, he is different from most children and you are adapting his environment to his "different" behavior. You can't do this forever however. in my opinion he does need [I][B]outside [/B][/I]help. And I also must chime in that he does have Asperger traits. Is this something shameful in France? I'm really curious. It is very unusual for a parent to try to do everything alone. Since we are so emotionally involved in the child, it is also very difficult to do the right thing. I also agree that trying to explain and/or negotiate with a four year old is rather a puzzling tactic. He is likely to get harder to raise as he gets older, especially if he gets no help. Also, you don't KNOW what is wrong with him. You are guessing that he has ADHD maybe because he is active. But many issues cause hyperactivity. Whatever may be the problem, it is better to face it than to deny it. Just my two cents :) [/QUOTE]
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