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<blockquote data-quote="ready2run" data-source="post: 444228" data-attributes="member: 11339"><p>i know what you mean. i only have shared custody of my oldest because of them, so she is with my parents during the week and me on weekends/holidays. they deamed her 'at risk' because she was hiding under tables and barking at people, she bit the principle when he pulled her out from under the table and was hitting other kids. they assumed that these behaviours meant she was abused or neglected. i was blamed for all her problems. then she was placed with my parents and after a few months it went from 'what did you do to her' to 'something is wrong with her'. turns out (as i said) i hadn't abused her, she's autistic.... she was 4 when they took her and i could not get her back until i had proof that it was a medical problem not caused by me and by the time she got her diagnosis at 9 it was too late to get her back. the judge said it would 'cause further unnecessary trauma'. the CAS also tried to say i wasn't co-operating because they told me i had to attend a parenting seminar held by them and they would send me the info and never bothered to send it. i just want them to go away. i know there are cases when they actually do help kids out but they have done nothing but cause me grief and make things difficult for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ready2run, post: 444228, member: 11339"] i know what you mean. i only have shared custody of my oldest because of them, so she is with my parents during the week and me on weekends/holidays. they deamed her 'at risk' because she was hiding under tables and barking at people, she bit the principle when he pulled her out from under the table and was hitting other kids. they assumed that these behaviours meant she was abused or neglected. i was blamed for all her problems. then she was placed with my parents and after a few months it went from 'what did you do to her' to 'something is wrong with her'. turns out (as i said) i hadn't abused her, she's autistic.... she was 4 when they took her and i could not get her back until i had proof that it was a medical problem not caused by me and by the time she got her diagnosis at 9 it was too late to get her back. the judge said it would 'cause further unnecessary trauma'. the CAS also tried to say i wasn't co-operating because they told me i had to attend a parenting seminar held by them and they would send me the info and never bothered to send it. i just want them to go away. i know there are cases when they actually do help kids out but they have done nothing but cause me grief and make things difficult for me. [/QUOTE]
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