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*Sigh* need advice regarding Copper (LONG)
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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 152958" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>I wish I could let this go. It is <em>killing</em> me.</p><p></p><p>I feel like, whether I take action or not, I am playing puppetmaster. Who am I to decide that it is better for things to be left as they are? Or who am I to open up a can of worms? I don't know, I have so many conflicting feelings. I saw how much hurt that J put Copper through, so maybe my new doubt is really a glimmer of hope that she could really have a dad? I am trying so hard to clear my emotions out of the way and use logic when trying to figure this out.</p><p></p><p>As it stands right now, there is nothing pressing like a disease where I would need to know medical background or anything. I know that I do not have to make a decision today. I feel bad that for all these years, K had this in the back of his head, wondering. Of course, as has been noted, it did not bother him all that much because he never tried to find out. So right now, J, K, and Copper do not think anything is amiss, but I am going out of my mind crazy.</p><p></p><p>One other piece to this is that I just recently located Copper's brother and sister on Myspace. I told Copper about it, and she has been taking her time in deciding whether to persue a relationship with them. When J stopped seeing her, all contact between her and her siblings was cut off. Now her sister is 18 and her brother is not far behind. </p><p></p><p>Boy has my past come back to bite me in the arse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 152958, member: 3647"] I wish I could let this go. It is [I]killing[/I] me. I feel like, whether I take action or not, I am playing puppetmaster. Who am I to decide that it is better for things to be left as they are? Or who am I to open up a can of worms? I don't know, I have so many conflicting feelings. I saw how much hurt that J put Copper through, so maybe my new doubt is really a glimmer of hope that she could really have a dad? I am trying so hard to clear my emotions out of the way and use logic when trying to figure this out. As it stands right now, there is nothing pressing like a disease where I would need to know medical background or anything. I know that I do not have to make a decision today. I feel bad that for all these years, K had this in the back of his head, wondering. Of course, as has been noted, it did not bother him all that much because he never tried to find out. So right now, J, K, and Copper do not think anything is amiss, but I am going out of my mind crazy. One other piece to this is that I just recently located Copper's brother and sister on Myspace. I told Copper about it, and she has been taking her time in deciding whether to persue a relationship with them. When J stopped seeing her, all contact between her and her siblings was cut off. Now her sister is 18 and her brother is not far behind. Boy has my past come back to bite me in the arse. [/QUOTE]
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