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*Sigh* need advice regarding Copper (LONG)
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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 152990" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>Adding my two cents to the pot...</p><p></p><p>I think you should do...nothing. Copper is dealing with the hurt/self-esteem issues/confusion that J caused her. Why add more confusion? And then have her feel even more unlovable because both potential fathers didn't care enough about her to get to know her? K may be a good guy, but, after this amount of time, he can't be the carousel-riding, candy-eating daddy we all dream about when our fathers are not what we need. You have believed J was her father for 21 years. She believes J is her father. I'm guessing you haven't been in hiding all these years? There are ways to find people if you really want to find them. </p><p></p><p>I wouldn't call this a "sweep it under the rug" issue, I'd call it a "protect my daughter" issue. I was in a similar situation about 25 years ago, but I didn't continue the pregnancy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 152990, member: 4040"] Adding my two cents to the pot... I think you should do...nothing. Copper is dealing with the hurt/self-esteem issues/confusion that J caused her. Why add more confusion? And then have her feel even more unlovable because both potential fathers didn't care enough about her to get to know her? K may be a good guy, but, after this amount of time, he can't be the carousel-riding, candy-eating daddy we all dream about when our fathers are not what we need. You have believed J was her father for 21 years. She believes J is her father. I'm guessing you haven't been in hiding all these years? There are ways to find people if you really want to find them. I wouldn't call this a "sweep it under the rug" issue, I'd call it a "protect my daughter" issue. I was in a similar situation about 25 years ago, but I didn't continue the pregnancy. [/QUOTE]
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