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*Sigh* need advice regarding Copper (LONG)
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 153533" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>BBK, Here is my take on this. Copper was terribly hurt by J.</p><p>Finding out that he was not her real dad could help her in that she could then rationalize his not caring enough to stay in her life because there was no "real" bond. (No I do not feel this way I am both an adopted mother and a bio mother. I love all my kids and couldn't walk away from any of them. I do however, think that it could help Copper to get over J's rejection if she could give some reason for it other than she was't enough to make him want to stay in her life. So I think if you can determine that K would not hurt Copper like J did and you want to persue this further you should take a DNA test sample from Copper's hairbrush or toothbrush without telling her and test with K. IF he does turn out to be the father, go slowly with the whole process with a therapist as a mediator. I do not think you should say anyting to Copper until you determine paternity with K first. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 153533, member: 2315"] BBK, Here is my take on this. Copper was terribly hurt by J. Finding out that he was not her real dad could help her in that she could then rationalize his not caring enough to stay in her life because there was no "real" bond. (No I do not feel this way I am both an adopted mother and a bio mother. I love all my kids and couldn't walk away from any of them. I do however, think that it could help Copper to get over J's rejection if she could give some reason for it other than she was't enough to make him want to stay in her life. So I think if you can determine that K would not hurt Copper like J did and you want to persue this further you should take a DNA test sample from Copper's hairbrush or toothbrush without telling her and test with K. IF he does turn out to be the father, go slowly with the whole process with a therapist as a mediator. I do not think you should say anyting to Copper until you determine paternity with K first. -RM [/QUOTE]
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