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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 154968" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I wish I could answer this riddle for you. I wish my Mother had cared as much as you. Her answer was always to run. My Bio-Father the same... I was adopted as well...</p><p>I was caught up in the drama of Mom, Bio-Dad and Adopted Dad... what were the lies and who was telling the truth? </p><p>I am still figuring it all out. </p><p>My Father was not a good person. It has taken me 38 years to start to get to know him, I still am taking it very slowly. </p><p>All I can tell you is that despite all of the horrible things my Mother did, the 9 years I knew her, I would not ever give it back. </p><p>My Adopted Father, He did some pretty horrible things as well, I spent 8 years with him. But I have lots of great memories as well and we actually have a good relationship now. We have both grown and learned from each other. I would not change this either despite the pain. </p><p>My bio-Father was the worst, in and out of prison, the drugs, the mental abuse... on and on. But I think I have learned the most from him. Will we ever be perfect? Will we ever be Father and Daughter? I doubt it, but we may be friends... </p><p>I think we are stronger than we could ever believe, you are stronger than you realize. </p><p>I don't know the answers, but I do know that I would not change a thing. Despite my parents mistakes... I could never hold a grudge against them. They were young and they were trying with what they had, all that they had. </p><p>I know you are doing everything... take some time, the answers will come to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 154968, member: 3155"] I wish I could answer this riddle for you. I wish my Mother had cared as much as you. Her answer was always to run. My Bio-Father the same... I was adopted as well... I was caught up in the drama of Mom, Bio-Dad and Adopted Dad... what were the lies and who was telling the truth? I am still figuring it all out. My Father was not a good person. It has taken me 38 years to start to get to know him, I still am taking it very slowly. All I can tell you is that despite all of the horrible things my Mother did, the 9 years I knew her, I would not ever give it back. My Adopted Father, He did some pretty horrible things as well, I spent 8 years with him. But I have lots of great memories as well and we actually have a good relationship now. We have both grown and learned from each other. I would not change this either despite the pain. My bio-Father was the worst, in and out of prison, the drugs, the mental abuse... on and on. But I think I have learned the most from him. Will we ever be perfect? Will we ever be Father and Daughter? I doubt it, but we may be friends... I think we are stronger than we could ever believe, you are stronger than you realize. I don't know the answers, but I do know that I would not change a thing. Despite my parents mistakes... I could never hold a grudge against them. They were young and they were trying with what they had, all that they had. I know you are doing everything... take some time, the answers will come to you. [/QUOTE]
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