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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 566916" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>TL I am very sorry that your heart is hurting. On some level it makes me angry because it's the same type of thing my difficult child does. He makes it sound like he wants help and no one will give it to him. He really wants something given to him without having to work for it. If he really wanted help he knows where to go for it. Instead he wants food given to him. I'm not saying this to disrespect your son or you and I would say it about my own difficult child. He can find day jobs or go to a temporary agency and go for assistance, but he is without ID because of choices he made and therefore it is difficult for him to get by.</p><p></p><p>But they put on fb this stuff that makes people think they are victims, it wasn't foisted upon him, he chose it. I'm curious what friends he hopes see this? He's been transient so long who are these friends he is appealing to on fb? Does he ever get any responses from anyone? It's also curious that he always seems to find some way to post on fb so he is resourceful that is for sure.</p><p></p><p>It's very frustrating because the longer they live this way the more worried I get and I'm sure you do, that they will never have the kind of life that will allow them to provide for themselves in an kind of a comfortable manner. The choices they make at some point become their way of life. I doubt whether my difficult child will ever think she has to pay bills or be responsible.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 566916, member: 59"] TL I am very sorry that your heart is hurting. On some level it makes me angry because it's the same type of thing my difficult child does. He makes it sound like he wants help and no one will give it to him. He really wants something given to him without having to work for it. If he really wanted help he knows where to go for it. Instead he wants food given to him. I'm not saying this to disrespect your son or you and I would say it about my own difficult child. He can find day jobs or go to a temporary agency and go for assistance, but he is without ID because of choices he made and therefore it is difficult for him to get by. But they put on fb this stuff that makes people think they are victims, it wasn't foisted upon him, he chose it. I'm curious what friends he hopes see this? He's been transient so long who are these friends he is appealing to on fb? Does he ever get any responses from anyone? It's also curious that he always seems to find some way to post on fb so he is resourceful that is for sure. It's very frustrating because the longer they live this way the more worried I get and I'm sure you do, that they will never have the kind of life that will allow them to provide for themselves in an kind of a comfortable manner. The choices they make at some point become their way of life. I doubt whether my difficult child will ever think she has to pay bills or be responsible. [/QUOTE]
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