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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 758704" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Thank you all for such wonderful support. Found out my daughter was at her boyfriends house tonight, it is about an hour away. I went over to her home and made an inspection of the property. To my surprise, the house looked very clean. I now know the boyfriend has not been there or lived there for a while. I noticed she was painting again and I got to see what a talented artist she is. </em></p><p><em>I think I have pin pointed where my pain comes from. It comes from the lies and rejection. When I go over to my daughters house, I am not over there ever very long, not over 45 minutes- 1 hour. I try very hard to not intrude or get into her space and I wait until I am invited. She suggested we have meals together and she suggested we spend time together and then the boyfriend called and things went south quickly. She then talked to me with ugly words and tone. I am 63 years old and I promise, I have never talked to anyone like that.</em></p><p><em>I am taking care of myself. I am working at putting my needs first. My family came first and it is hard for me to do for me but I am starting.</em></p><p><em>My daughter is ripping us off a son in law. I know that my deceased son cannot be replaced, but when she did have nice boyfriends my son's void was not quite so large. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>RN~ Saw where your son made the deans list. Said a prayer of gratitude for you.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Copa~ Where was your son suppose to cook his salmon? We have an outdoor kitchen and all grilling and cooking is out there. My husband can grill the best rainbow trout in the world. Yes, we need to be good mothers to our own self. You are so wise Copa.</em></p><p><em>JayPee~ You have your hands full with you two boys. I was so happy to hear that they are doing somewhat better. </em></p><p> </p><p>Hopeful Parent~ I know it has to be horribly painful for you to cut ties. But after you realize your child wants you dead, it put things in a entire different perspective. </p><p>LeaMac, I cried when I read your post. Your only child and daughter acting horrible. Unfair. I am also a biker and hiker! The feeling of rejection is so overwhelming that it hurts my cells. I send you understanding and love. Love and compassion to all of us hurting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 758704, member: 22416"] [I]Thank you all for such wonderful support. Found out my daughter was at her boyfriends house tonight, it is about an hour away. I went over to her home and made an inspection of the property. To my surprise, the house looked very clean. I now know the boyfriend has not been there or lived there for a while. I noticed she was painting again and I got to see what a talented artist she is. I think I have pin pointed where my pain comes from. It comes from the lies and rejection. When I go over to my daughters house, I am not over there ever very long, not over 45 minutes- 1 hour. I try very hard to not intrude or get into her space and I wait until I am invited. She suggested we have meals together and she suggested we spend time together and then the boyfriend called and things went south quickly. She then talked to me with ugly words and tone. I am 63 years old and I promise, I have never talked to anyone like that. I am taking care of myself. I am working at putting my needs first. My family came first and it is hard for me to do for me but I am starting. My daughter is ripping us off a son in law. I know that my deceased son cannot be replaced, but when she did have nice boyfriends my son's void was not quite so large. RN~ Saw where your son made the deans list. Said a prayer of gratitude for you. Copa~ Where was your son suppose to cook his salmon? We have an outdoor kitchen and all grilling and cooking is out there. My husband can grill the best rainbow trout in the world. Yes, we need to be good mothers to our own self. You are so wise Copa. JayPee~ You have your hands full with you two boys. I was so happy to hear that they are doing somewhat better. [/I] Hopeful Parent~ I know it has to be horribly painful for you to cut ties. But after you realize your child wants you dead, it put things in a entire different perspective. LeaMac, I cried when I read your post. Your only child and daughter acting horrible. Unfair. I am also a biker and hiker! The feeling of rejection is so overwhelming that it hurts my cells. I send you understanding and love. Love and compassion to all of us hurting. [/QUOTE]
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