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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 758709" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi Busynmember, If my daughter JUST picked a horrible mate I could possibly look the other way. It is the lies, disrespect and all the other stuff that goes with it. It is hours of listening to my daughter complain to me what a loser he is, how stupid he is, what a mess he is, how he can't do anything right. There are times I actually feel sorry for him. He has developed a knot in his chest that he will not have looked at. I believe that knot is from the stress they both put each other through. In the past my daughter picked good decent men. I know clearly and understand deeply that I cannot pick my daughter's mate or anyone's else's mate for that matter and I don't want that task either. I just want my daughter to be happy with who she picks and she is stressed, in agony, confusion and pain with the mate she is with yet cannot get out of it. Because she is so miserable with HER choice she is toxic to all around her. If she was happy with her mate and I disliked him I could just look away. They are both horrible together, she will even tell me how toxic they are. So I am staying out of it and I just can't take the lies and all the dark stuff that goes with it. I feel used and abused. I am simply wore out to the core. Love, compassion back to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 758709, member: 22416"] Hi Busynmember, If my daughter JUST picked a horrible mate I could possibly look the other way. It is the lies, disrespect and all the other stuff that goes with it. It is hours of listening to my daughter complain to me what a loser he is, how stupid he is, what a mess he is, how he can't do anything right. There are times I actually feel sorry for him. He has developed a knot in his chest that he will not have looked at. I believe that knot is from the stress they both put each other through. In the past my daughter picked good decent men. I know clearly and understand deeply that I cannot pick my daughter's mate or anyone's else's mate for that matter and I don't want that task either. I just want my daughter to be happy with who she picks and she is stressed, in agony, confusion and pain with the mate she is with yet cannot get out of it. Because she is so miserable with HER choice she is toxic to all around her. If she was happy with her mate and I disliked him I could just look away. They are both horrible together, she will even tell me how toxic they are. So I am staying out of it and I just can't take the lies and all the dark stuff that goes with it. I feel used and abused. I am simply wore out to the core. Love, compassion back to you. [/QUOTE]
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