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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 758741" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Thank you Hopeful parent. My daughter is posting things about me being a narcissist on FB. She is posting about how narcissistic the silent treatment is. I told her I was taking a break. She knows where I stand. Her behavior is offensive to me each time I see her from her tone of voice, to her draining me with her complaining to her lying to me then trying to use me and then gaslight me all over again. I am certainly in the no contact mode for self preservation. My daughter is 38 years old, she has a job and she is very politically involved, she KNOWS when she is harming another person she just does not care and cannot understand why that person does not want to go through it. I know she can control it because she is working and has to control it in a work place. My bipolar brother in law told me to accept him as he is, my daughter said the same thing, their behavior is unacceptable to me, it actually makes me sick to my stomach and in reality why on earth would I want to talk with someone that would be happy if I was dead. I am sure my daughter is having a hard time because I am some of her narcissistic supply, she drains me to the core. I saw a meme that said 'If someone drains you why do you keep giving them the straw? I do not know what next to do but get myself out from underneath the beatings.</p><p>I wish you the best too Hopeful parent I know how heart breaking this is, and like your son, my daughter is with someone that just makes her worse. Her mate is very toxic but I think she maybe the more toxic one in her relationship. I wish you the very best too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 758741, member: 22416"] Thank you Hopeful parent. My daughter is posting things about me being a narcissist on FB. She is posting about how narcissistic the silent treatment is. I told her I was taking a break. She knows where I stand. Her behavior is offensive to me each time I see her from her tone of voice, to her draining me with her complaining to her lying to me then trying to use me and then gaslight me all over again. I am certainly in the no contact mode for self preservation. My daughter is 38 years old, she has a job and she is very politically involved, she KNOWS when she is harming another person she just does not care and cannot understand why that person does not want to go through it. I know she can control it because she is working and has to control it in a work place. My bipolar brother in law told me to accept him as he is, my daughter said the same thing, their behavior is unacceptable to me, it actually makes me sick to my stomach and in reality why on earth would I want to talk with someone that would be happy if I was dead. I am sure my daughter is having a hard time because I am some of her narcissistic supply, she drains me to the core. I saw a meme that said 'If someone drains you why do you keep giving them the straw? I do not know what next to do but get myself out from underneath the beatings. I wish you the best too Hopeful parent I know how heart breaking this is, and like your son, my daughter is with someone that just makes her worse. Her mate is very toxic but I think she maybe the more toxic one in her relationship. I wish you the very best too. [/QUOTE]
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