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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 665596" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think that as we heal the initial toxicities, we will not be vulnerable to new ones. We will not experience an atomic bomb explosion of old, useless shame. We will have rehearsed and rewritten the traumas into something reflecting our changed awarenesses.</p><p></p><p>And we will be whole, and healed, and strong...and like every coward, like every bully everywhere, those who so freely attack us now, secure in the knowledge that we will not attack them, will not attack in future. And if they do, we will recognize it for what it is and lower the boom and it will be great.</p><p></p><p>We will freely channel our inner Donald.</p><p></p><p>***</p><p></p><p>It all ties in to that toxic shame we were hurt into.</p><p></p><p>Heal that (which we are) and everything will be different.</p><p></p><p>D H is so quick to see and address any slight you would not even believe it.</p><p></p><p>That is how we will be, too.</p><p></p><p>I am believing M is the same. Where we suffer in silence because we are frantically trying to trace what we did to cause someone to react as they have, M and D H are like, "WITCH, PLEASE."</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>Sisters are such a big influence on how we see ourselves.</p><p></p><p>How crummy we got bad ones.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 665596, member: 17461"] I think that as we heal the initial toxicities, we will not be vulnerable to new ones. We will not experience an atomic bomb explosion of old, useless shame. We will have rehearsed and rewritten the traumas into something reflecting our changed awarenesses. And we will be whole, and healed, and strong...and like every coward, like every bully everywhere, those who so freely attack us now, secure in the knowledge that we will not attack them, will not attack in future. And if they do, we will recognize it for what it is and lower the boom and it will be great. We will freely channel our inner Donald. *** It all ties in to that toxic shame we were hurt into. Heal that (which we are) and everything will be different. D H is so quick to see and address any slight you would not even believe it. That is how we will be, too. I am believing M is the same. Where we suffer in silence because we are frantically trying to trace what we did to cause someone to react as they have, M and D H are like, "WITCH, PLEASE." :O) Cedar Sisters are such a big influence on how we see ourselves. How crummy we got bad ones. [/QUOTE]
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