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Situation with gfg32 has gone "beserkier"
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 619766" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Personally I think adult kids who cant manage to live without us are lying to themselves. My son who is almost 33 has simply had it way too easy staying with us. Now he is mad as a wet hen that we are doing this "to him." I cant figure out what we are doing to him. This man has held a pretty good job for the last 7 years and is now manager of a retail store. Personally I never thought that would happen but it did. He is perfectly able to live here along with his brother. Heck, he could have moved out several years ago but Tony has always been convinced he is the most disabled of our kids and somehow we neglected getting him help when he was a child. Maybe we did but back then I had never even heard of Aspergers. </p><p></p><p>I have told my kids over and over again that by the time I was their ages I was a parent to 3 boys who had problems. I was already dealing with special education and mental health. I had no choice but to grow up because my parents would have laughed me out of town if I had suggested I needed help. Darn at 33, my oldest was 12! </p><p></p><p>I am not feeling a bit sorry for them anymore. I do have one son who basically did everything right as far as leaving home. And he did it in a fairly hard way. He joined the Marines and then stayed up there and became a member of the sheriff's dept. He has never asked to come home. In fact, he only accepted money from us one time and that was not his fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 619766, member: 1514"] Personally I think adult kids who cant manage to live without us are lying to themselves. My son who is almost 33 has simply had it way too easy staying with us. Now he is mad as a wet hen that we are doing this "to him." I cant figure out what we are doing to him. This man has held a pretty good job for the last 7 years and is now manager of a retail store. Personally I never thought that would happen but it did. He is perfectly able to live here along with his brother. Heck, he could have moved out several years ago but Tony has always been convinced he is the most disabled of our kids and somehow we neglected getting him help when he was a child. Maybe we did but back then I had never even heard of Aspergers. I have told my kids over and over again that by the time I was their ages I was a parent to 3 boys who had problems. I was already dealing with special education and mental health. I had no choice but to grow up because my parents would have laughed me out of town if I had suggested I needed help. Darn at 33, my oldest was 12! I am not feeling a bit sorry for them anymore. I do have one son who basically did everything right as far as leaving home. And he did it in a fairly hard way. He joined the Marines and then stayed up there and became a member of the sheriff's dept. He has never asked to come home. In fact, he only accepted money from us one time and that was not his fault. [/QUOTE]
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