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Situation with gfg32 has gone "beserkier"
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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 619997" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Yes, there are drugs...I didn't think that until one night, about six weeks ago, when he became very upset because I would not send him $20 via Western Union. The next day, he sent a pretty mean email. I am a hospice volunteer and was telling one of my patients about it. (I have known him over a year and we have a wonderful friendly relationship) He said, <em>That's a druggie. Tell him you cannot afford to buy his affection."I </em>told R ...'nah, i don't think there are drugs involved." He said, Y<em>ou mark my word, that is a druggie desperate for his next fix.</em> The the girlfriend told me, during the flurry of texts and phone calls after the restraining order, that he was smoking spice every day. (I had to Google spice and read about it for days - not good news)--and he was expecting her to pay for it. That explained why the requests for money from husband and me were becoming more frequent. She made me swear not to tell difficult child that she shared this news with me. </p><p></p><p>Cedar, I would not wish a difficult child like ours on my worst enemy, so please forgive me that it helps a lot to know you know exactly what I am describing. (because, honestly, i wish you didn't...but since you do, anyway....) :ambivalence:</p><p></p><p>Just an hour ago, I was feeling sad, worried about gfg32, hoping he can find work, hoping he realizes no job is beneath him...surely he could get on at Subway, McDonalds...? and, in a few minutes I'm so darn mad again. We offered him help after he gets in therapy (medications, if needed) and has a job. But, noooooo, nobody puts contingencies on him. He has to call the shots. </p><p></p><p>husband and I are retired. Retired folks don't make enough to support unmotivated gfg32's...even if we wanted to. and, till May? Gee whiz. husband and I are not ready to pay for one night, even. It would take the contingencies given him PLUS he would have to be nice and civil. That should protect husband and me for a long while, lol.</p><p></p><p>Verbally abusive. Yes...I remember my mom and I talking about that several years ago....and then, i guess I just forgot. That is NOT something to forget. I will go to the website you shared above. </p><p></p><p>....and Cedar, you made me remember some car stories, too! agh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 619997, member: 17635"] Yes, there are drugs...I didn't think that until one night, about six weeks ago, when he became very upset because I would not send him $20 via Western Union. The next day, he sent a pretty mean email. I am a hospice volunteer and was telling one of my patients about it. (I have known him over a year and we have a wonderful friendly relationship) He said, [I]That's a druggie. Tell him you cannot afford to buy his affection."I [/I]told R ...'nah, i don't think there are drugs involved." He said, Y[I]ou mark my word, that is a druggie desperate for his next fix.[/I] The the girlfriend told me, during the flurry of texts and phone calls after the restraining order, that he was smoking spice every day. (I had to Google spice and read about it for days - not good news)--and he was expecting her to pay for it. That explained why the requests for money from husband and me were becoming more frequent. She made me swear not to tell difficult child that she shared this news with me. Cedar, I would not wish a difficult child like ours on my worst enemy, so please forgive me that it helps a lot to know you know exactly what I am describing. (because, honestly, i wish you didn't...but since you do, anyway....) :ambivalence: Just an hour ago, I was feeling sad, worried about gfg32, hoping he can find work, hoping he realizes no job is beneath him...surely he could get on at Subway, McDonalds...? and, in a few minutes I'm so darn mad again. We offered him help after he gets in therapy (medications, if needed) and has a job. But, noooooo, nobody puts contingencies on him. He has to call the shots. husband and I are retired. Retired folks don't make enough to support unmotivated gfg32's...even if we wanted to. and, till May? Gee whiz. husband and I are not ready to pay for one night, even. It would take the contingencies given him PLUS he would have to be nice and civil. That should protect husband and me for a long while, lol. Verbally abusive. Yes...I remember my mom and I talking about that several years ago....and then, i guess I just forgot. That is NOT something to forget. I will go to the website you shared above. ....and Cedar, you made me remember some car stories, too! agh [/QUOTE]
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