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Situation with gfg32 has gone "beserkier"
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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 620046" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Thanks for the validation. There were two more emails this AM...addressed me only. I skimmed them and told husband, <em>Maybe I should email and suggest he get to emergency room for finger and tell them about his need for therapy.</em> And husband said, <em>Maybe so, but wait a bit.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>And then, I woke up a little more. <strong>At 32, he knows about emergency rooms.</strong> Before moving them to a folder, marked GFG32, I read both emails more carefully. He is using a different slant--still guilt for me--but more about regrets I will have in the future about this, that I don't know all the variables going on, that he just needs help until May 1 (sounds like major $$ to me), etc., etc. And both subject lines include DO NOT RESPOND. He makes it sound like <strong>I</strong> am the one throwing everything away by not helping him in his need. He also claims he and (ex?)girlfriend are good. In fact, he even claims the help is for both of them. I don't believe that for a second. (ex)girlfriend would call me if that was the case.</p><p></p><p>My mom called last night. He had emailed her and said he is ready to take her up on her offer of grad school. She reminded him that she gets to choose the school. She said he sent a furious email back and told her he is posting a letter to all three of our Facebook pages so the <em>world will know about us. </em>She has a FB page that she never uses and wanted help taking it down. She can't remember her password, lol. Anyway, nothing was on any of our FB pages...He deleted me as a friend months ago so can't post on my page, anyway.</p><p></p><p>I so appreciate you guys taking the time to read this daily stuff and helping me through it. You told me he would amp it up....and that has certainly happened. How long will it take him to figure things out?? Surely, he will? Please? Sometimes, i DO feel some guilt, but remember that husband and I said we would give him a leg up after he got into therapy, got a job and turned his life around. He never even mentions therapy....just that husband and I don't understand. He referred to <strong>detachment</strong> again and how wrong I am. That word certainly bothers him and I can guess why.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 620046, member: 17635"] Thanks for the validation. There were two more emails this AM...addressed me only. I skimmed them and told husband, [I]Maybe I should email and suggest he get to emergency room for finger and tell them about his need for therapy.[/I] And husband said, [I]Maybe so, but wait a bit. [/I] And then, I woke up a little more. [B]At 32, he knows about emergency rooms.[/B] Before moving them to a folder, marked GFG32, I read both emails more carefully. He is using a different slant--still guilt for me--but more about regrets I will have in the future about this, that I don't know all the variables going on, that he just needs help until May 1 (sounds like major $$ to me), etc., etc. And both subject lines include DO NOT RESPOND. He makes it sound like [B]I[/B] am the one throwing everything away by not helping him in his need. He also claims he and (ex?)girlfriend are good. In fact, he even claims the help is for both of them. I don't believe that for a second. (ex)girlfriend would call me if that was the case. My mom called last night. He had emailed her and said he is ready to take her up on her offer of grad school. She reminded him that she gets to choose the school. She said he sent a furious email back and told her he is posting a letter to all three of our Facebook pages so the [I]world will know about us. [/I]She has a FB page that she never uses and wanted help taking it down. She can't remember her password, lol. Anyway, nothing was on any of our FB pages...He deleted me as a friend months ago so can't post on my page, anyway. I so appreciate you guys taking the time to read this daily stuff and helping me through it. You told me he would amp it up....and that has certainly happened. How long will it take him to figure things out?? Surely, he will? Please? Sometimes, i DO feel some guilt, but remember that husband and I said we would give him a leg up after he got into therapy, got a job and turned his life around. He never even mentions therapy....just that husband and I don't understand. He referred to [B]detachment[/B] again and how wrong I am. That word certainly bothers him and I can guess why. [/QUOTE]
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