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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 756296" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>You and Busy shared the same experience as ours. Difficult Child's sister and brother suffered way too much because of all we did for Difficult Child. While he harassed them, we were saying things like, "Just ignore him. Don't be upset", etc. We would approach it so differently now that we know better. They have touched on those days, but never been accusatory.</p><p></p><p>Heck, I think I may have some hangups because of the way I was raised. (Don't get me started, haha.) Would I ever blame my hangups on my parents? No. Perhaps they had something to do with it...how many parents do not??, but once I hit about 30 years old, I knew it was my stuff to clean up, however I evolved. No way would I demand $$, post horrible online accusations, etc.</p><p></p><p>This forum helps husband and me manage our feelings of despair and anger, but those feelings are always there. My hope ebbs & flows. Thankfully, I have my faith, husband and beer. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p> Conduct Disorders has certainly been a blessing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 756296, member: 17635"] You and Busy shared the same experience as ours. Difficult Child's sister and brother suffered way too much because of all we did for Difficult Child. While he harassed them, we were saying things like, "Just ignore him. Don't be upset", etc. We would approach it so differently now that we know better. They have touched on those days, but never been accusatory. Heck, I think I may have some hangups because of the way I was raised. (Don't get me started, haha.) Would I ever blame my hangups on my parents? No. Perhaps they had something to do with it...how many parents do not??, but once I hit about 30 years old, I knew it was my stuff to clean up, however I evolved. No way would I demand $$, post horrible online accusations, etc. This forum helps husband and me manage our feelings of despair and anger, but those feelings are always there. My hope ebbs & flows. Thankfully, I have my faith, husband and beer. ;) Conduct Disorders has certainly been a blessing. [/QUOTE]
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