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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 62566" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>Jane, is it possible for Molly to begin using her middle name, or if Molly is a nickname, to begin using her given name from here on in? If the sister was callous enough to bet on when Molly would lose her virginity, I think you can assume the sister will spring the way she has used Molly's name on the real Molly when she is most vulnerable.</p><p></p><p>I had a friend whose given name caused her to identify so strongly with past abuse that she changed her first name as an adult, and began going by her middle name. She found that the name change enabled her to respond to events in her life in a much healthier way, and has never gone back to using her first name.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps this is something Molly could discuss with her therapist.</p><p></p><p>This must be tearing you apart.</p><p></p><p>Sending strength.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 62566, member: 1721"] Jane, is it possible for Molly to begin using her middle name, or if Molly is a nickname, to begin using her given name from here on in? If the sister was callous enough to bet on when Molly would lose her virginity, I think you can assume the sister will spring the way she has used Molly's name on the real Molly when she is most vulnerable. I had a friend whose given name caused her to identify so strongly with past abuse that she changed her first name as an adult, and began going by her middle name. She found that the name change enabled her to respond to events in her life in a much healthier way, and has never gone back to using her first name. Perhaps this is something Molly could discuss with her therapist. This must be tearing you apart. Sending strength. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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