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SO and I had our first argument about difficult children.
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 558279" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Personally I wouldnt break it off simply because he said something like that. He really hasnt met your kids and he probably doesnt have experience with many people with mental health issues. You havent so far been upfront with him about your issues from what you have posted. I think you need to have some long conversations with this guy if you want to be with him. He really could be a good guy who has your best interests at heart. It sounds like it hurt him to hear someone talking badly to you. That sounds like someone who cares about you. </p><p></p><p>You may be selling him short in being able to understand things. Truth be told, Tony had a whole lot of evidence that I was crazier than a loon and he should have run for the hills but he stood by me. This was even before we had kids. Heck even after we had the boys he could have kicked me out and I would have left the boys with him. He chose to stay with me. None of us knew what my problem was for years. </p><p></p><p>Talk to this guy and give him a chance. See what his views are and what he has to say. You will know pretty fast how he reacts and where you need to go from there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 558279, member: 1514"] Personally I wouldnt break it off simply because he said something like that. He really hasnt met your kids and he probably doesnt have experience with many people with mental health issues. You havent so far been upfront with him about your issues from what you have posted. I think you need to have some long conversations with this guy if you want to be with him. He really could be a good guy who has your best interests at heart. It sounds like it hurt him to hear someone talking badly to you. That sounds like someone who cares about you. You may be selling him short in being able to understand things. Truth be told, Tony had a whole lot of evidence that I was crazier than a loon and he should have run for the hills but he stood by me. This was even before we had kids. Heck even after we had the boys he could have kicked me out and I would have left the boys with him. He chose to stay with me. None of us knew what my problem was for years. Talk to this guy and give him a chance. See what his views are and what he has to say. You will know pretty fast how he reacts and where you need to go from there. [/QUOTE]
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