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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 603324" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>PG, </p><p>Thank you for the hugs, you're a sweetheart. </p><p></p><p>Well, now I kind of feel like a fool. </p><p>See...the $10 I gave him for "food" apparently, must have, been used for alcohol. </p><p></p><p>Today, no sooner than I posted, I got a call from my friend who told me that she just saw Young difficult child's truck at motel. He did not go to work according to his brother/Oldest difficult child. And on top of that, daughter in law told me that he had to have been drunk last night as he was "very ugly" to her on the phone. </p><p></p><p>I was used/played/taken advantage of once again. I was a willing participant...as they say in AA. </p><p>I am so done feeling sorry for him. It's all for not. </p><p></p><p>Maybe I needed this lessen to really "let go". If I keep giving young difficult child even alittle money or a pack of cigs or even dinner...it just feels like it's used for bad behavior. </p><p></p><p>It really stinks that we can't have the kind of relationship that other parents get to have with their grown children. It's just not the same playing field. I need to remember that. </p><p></p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 603324, member: 3305"] PG, Thank you for the hugs, you're a sweetheart. Well, now I kind of feel like a fool. See...the $10 I gave him for "food" apparently, must have, been used for alcohol. Today, no sooner than I posted, I got a call from my friend who told me that she just saw Young difficult child's truck at motel. He did not go to work according to his brother/Oldest difficult child. And on top of that, daughter in law told me that he had to have been drunk last night as he was "very ugly" to her on the phone. I was used/played/taken advantage of once again. I was a willing participant...as they say in AA. I am so done feeling sorry for him. It's all for not. Maybe I needed this lessen to really "let go". If I keep giving young difficult child even alittle money or a pack of cigs or even dinner...it just feels like it's used for bad behavior. It really stinks that we can't have the kind of relationship that other parents get to have with their grown children. It's just not the same playing field. I need to remember that. LMS [/QUOTE]
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