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So, here's the letter - Update to she can't hurt me anymore thread
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<blockquote data-quote="TPaul" data-source="post: 319775" data-attributes="member: 8055"><p><strong><span style="color: darkred">Dear Flutter,</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Having a wife and child with BiPolar (BP) has shown me that thier own personal view of how things are and how thing are, are colored every time from thier own perspective. Not how things are, but how they suppose them to be. They always see everyone against them, or accusing them, or blaming them as being unjustly accused. Maybe it is a bit of paranoia, I am not sure. </span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">I know that with my son that since he has began his medications that his perception is much closer to reality. He is able to see his actions and the results of his words or actions affecting others. It was always someone elses fault when something happened at school or at home.</span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">wife still has trouble with this, though she might be a hair better. She sees herself as the only one working long hours, the only one worrying over bills, the only one spending time with the kids, etc... Her perception concerning me is always colored by a different perception than reality. That bothers me, and for years it infurated me that I was always to blame for everything and she always come out smelling like a rose. Regardless of the situation, she was always the good guy doing the right thing, when in reality she was most likely to have started something, to have said something wrong, to have made the mistake, etc.. Nowing that with BiPolar (BP) that this seems to be a trait that they have, does help mentally on how I see it, though it does not help enough on how I feel it.</span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">We just have to learn to let it roll off of us. We know we do our best, and try our hardest. That is just the facts regardless of how difficult child see them.</span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Soft and gentle hugs and a big rose </span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Tpaul</span></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TPaul, post: 319775, member: 8055"] [B][COLOR=darkred]Dear Flutter,[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Having a wife and child with BiPolar (BP) has shown me that thier own personal view of how things are and how thing are, are colored every time from thier own perspective. Not how things are, but how they suppose them to be. They always see everyone against them, or accusing them, or blaming them as being unjustly accused. Maybe it is a bit of paranoia, I am not sure. [/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]I know that with my son that since he has began his medications that his perception is much closer to reality. He is able to see his actions and the results of his words or actions affecting others. It was always someone elses fault when something happened at school or at home.[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]wife still has trouble with this, though she might be a hair better. She sees herself as the only one working long hours, the only one worrying over bills, the only one spending time with the kids, etc... Her perception concerning me is always colored by a different perception than reality. That bothers me, and for years it infurated me that I was always to blame for everything and she always come out smelling like a rose. Regardless of the situation, she was always the good guy doing the right thing, when in reality she was most likely to have started something, to have said something wrong, to have made the mistake, etc.. Nowing that with BiPolar (BP) that this seems to be a trait that they have, does help mentally on how I see it, though it does not help enough on how I feel it.[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]We just have to learn to let it roll off of us. We know we do our best, and try our hardest. That is just the facts regardless of how difficult child see them.[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Soft and gentle hugs and a big rose [/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Tpaul[/COLOR][/B] [/QUOTE]
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