BusynMember
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My husband and I found a house we loved at an amazing price so I contacted my brother, executor of Dad's will to ask when we would get our inheritance, explaining wanting to make offer on house. He really spent a lot of time, bless him, getting the money to us early. We thanked him and said we hope to see him...he can visit anytime. He said thanks, but I don't expect him to contact me again. This is my fault and I am sorry. He is a great guy and it is my loss that somehow we lost touch. I don't even remember why it happened. I think it was during my divorce. At any rate, the past can not be changed.
But I am finally totally out of the shadow of the woman who is my sister via DNA. This is mostly for those who know the story. Sis never did acknowledge that the cops she called on me repeatedly were simply revenge, except for the first time when I get it as I was on her property. So if we ever spoke again she could easily call the cops again. My daughter is in law enforcement now and I won't risk embarrassing her by my sister calling the cops on her mother and my sister never cared if she embarrassed my daughter in the past. The past predicts the future. She called a cop on us many times that was the father of Jumper's good friend, and she knew this but didn't care. Luckily, this man had sister's number but why did she call knowing that his daughter knows our daughter? Mean! It was a small town. He was the head cop of only three so she kept calling him. Who does that???
Sis did the revenge cop call so many times. Also she never ever tried to show any empathy to me during my mother's treatment of me. I know that if it had been reversed I would have been there, probably stuck up for her to my mother. I just know this is the end of my sister ever contacting me. If she ever tries I will contact my lawyer. Cease and disist. I am sorry it has come to this and I am sure she thinks it's my fault but I don't...the cops tactic is bizarre and abnormal and extreme and my opinion is something that she can not help herself from doing when seething and she has to shut me down any way she can when she gets angry.
So Sister Act II is finally, finally really over, not that we were ever really sisters. Our kids dont know each other. She would not go long enough in contact with me before she would get mad, call the cops on me, and disappear for months to years so our kids never had a chance to get together.
And she told her family and friends I am mentally ill which is true. I have a mood disorder (very controlled) and anxiety (harder to control) I doubt she told her own husband or kids or rather strange friends that she had an eating disorder (and still does by her low weight and I have never seen her eat a meal) This is a very serious mental illness that can cause death. I fear she may have transfered this to another but it's not my business. Eating disorders run in the family. My uncle had one. He was a skeleton. So is my sister. Worse, she thinks being that underweight is attractive .I think she also has depression and probably a personality disorder, like our mother did.
Anyway, the mother's last name part of my family is history finally and for sure.....and I never knew my father's family and have no interest in connecting with strangerss at this late date. I am content with who I have as real family. My sister hopefully has dumped her seven year narc boyfriend...he is so horrid! THAT is who she loved and even after he broke into her house she wouldn't call the cops on HIM! It's almost worth a lol!
I was so stupid and needy of my sister's love to ever talk to her after the second time she called the cops. But it is what it is
Whatever time is lef for me, 20 years I hope, will be drama free and cops free. I feel like crying at how often the cops came simply because my sister wanted to cause major trouble and how I did my part by letting her. I could have stopped her. That is on me.
I am free.
Thank you all for the support through so many years. I love you all! Special thanks to Cedar and Copa
Thanks again and again and again!!
But I am finally totally out of the shadow of the woman who is my sister via DNA. This is mostly for those who know the story. Sis never did acknowledge that the cops she called on me repeatedly were simply revenge, except for the first time when I get it as I was on her property. So if we ever spoke again she could easily call the cops again. My daughter is in law enforcement now and I won't risk embarrassing her by my sister calling the cops on her mother and my sister never cared if she embarrassed my daughter in the past. The past predicts the future. She called a cop on us many times that was the father of Jumper's good friend, and she knew this but didn't care. Luckily, this man had sister's number but why did she call knowing that his daughter knows our daughter? Mean! It was a small town. He was the head cop of only three so she kept calling him. Who does that???
Sis did the revenge cop call so many times. Also she never ever tried to show any empathy to me during my mother's treatment of me. I know that if it had been reversed I would have been there, probably stuck up for her to my mother. I just know this is the end of my sister ever contacting me. If she ever tries I will contact my lawyer. Cease and disist. I am sorry it has come to this and I am sure she thinks it's my fault but I don't...the cops tactic is bizarre and abnormal and extreme and my opinion is something that she can not help herself from doing when seething and she has to shut me down any way she can when she gets angry.
So Sister Act II is finally, finally really over, not that we were ever really sisters. Our kids dont know each other. She would not go long enough in contact with me before she would get mad, call the cops on me, and disappear for months to years so our kids never had a chance to get together.
And she told her family and friends I am mentally ill which is true. I have a mood disorder (very controlled) and anxiety (harder to control) I doubt she told her own husband or kids or rather strange friends that she had an eating disorder (and still does by her low weight and I have never seen her eat a meal) This is a very serious mental illness that can cause death. I fear she may have transfered this to another but it's not my business. Eating disorders run in the family. My uncle had one. He was a skeleton. So is my sister. Worse, she thinks being that underweight is attractive .I think she also has depression and probably a personality disorder, like our mother did.
Anyway, the mother's last name part of my family is history finally and for sure.....and I never knew my father's family and have no interest in connecting with strangerss at this late date. I am content with who I have as real family. My sister hopefully has dumped her seven year narc boyfriend...he is so horrid! THAT is who she loved and even after he broke into her house she wouldn't call the cops on HIM! It's almost worth a lol!
I was so stupid and needy of my sister's love to ever talk to her after the second time she called the cops. But it is what it is
Whatever time is lef for me, 20 years I hope, will be drama free and cops free. I feel like crying at how often the cops came simply because my sister wanted to cause major trouble and how I did my part by letting her. I could have stopped her. That is on me.
I am free.
Thank you all for the support through so many years. I love you all! Special thanks to Cedar and Copa
Thanks again and again and again!!
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