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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 309190" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>(((hugs))) what a terrible situation. Your poor girl <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>I do hope you find someone to listen and some ANSWERS. I haven't a clue what would cause this all over?? I do have MS, and muscle stiffening and spasming is very painful. My heart goes out to your daughter. I also get shakes in specific areas during muscle problems. But never all over. difficult child has been diagnosied with familial essential tremors although I am skeptical it is his problem. He gets horrible tremors in his hands that extend into his arm to his shoulder and I hate it. I want to stop it. Save him. I can't imagine something like that all over!! His tremors, once started, do worsen when his anxiety goes up due to embarassment or frustration/anger at the tremors happening. I've seen them mildly tremoring and he works himself up to such frustration and pain (emotional) over it, that the anxiety/stress from his emotions enormously affect the degree of his tremors. I started rubbing his back and talking him down , calming his mood, and finally he has realized it is a direct correlation to how bad his tremors become. So he now works to stay calm when tremors begin and although nothing is going to stop the tremors, they are no longer as out of control as they were when his emotions bounced around. I still feel helpless and worry about his future. His tremors become visible and intrusive with fine motor skill use. Even writing with pen or pencil for more than 5-10 minutes will always induce tremors and he cannot take notes in class, work with small materials (trades are out!). He can't do dishes, tying his shoes is now out as the tremors progress. Again, I don't believe this is what they have said (as he has bad spasms in his legs as well, not tremors, but massive spasms that are not typical growing pains etc).</p><p></p><p>I just wanted you to know that I kind of, although not fully, do understand what you must be going through. Tell your girl to hang in there. As for you mom, you are doing all you can for your girl. Keep pounding on doors and making a stink until the right person listens. I hope you find answers, and a solution, very quickly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 309190, member: 4264"] (((hugs))) what a terrible situation. Your poor girl :( I do hope you find someone to listen and some ANSWERS. I haven't a clue what would cause this all over?? I do have MS, and muscle stiffening and spasming is very painful. My heart goes out to your daughter. I also get shakes in specific areas during muscle problems. But never all over. difficult child has been diagnosied with familial essential tremors although I am skeptical it is his problem. He gets horrible tremors in his hands that extend into his arm to his shoulder and I hate it. I want to stop it. Save him. I can't imagine something like that all over!! His tremors, once started, do worsen when his anxiety goes up due to embarassment or frustration/anger at the tremors happening. I've seen them mildly tremoring and he works himself up to such frustration and pain (emotional) over it, that the anxiety/stress from his emotions enormously affect the degree of his tremors. I started rubbing his back and talking him down , calming his mood, and finally he has realized it is a direct correlation to how bad his tremors become. So he now works to stay calm when tremors begin and although nothing is going to stop the tremors, they are no longer as out of control as they were when his emotions bounced around. I still feel helpless and worry about his future. His tremors become visible and intrusive with fine motor skill use. Even writing with pen or pencil for more than 5-10 minutes will always induce tremors and he cannot take notes in class, work with small materials (trades are out!). He can't do dishes, tying his shoes is now out as the tremors progress. Again, I don't believe this is what they have said (as he has bad spasms in his legs as well, not tremors, but massive spasms that are not typical growing pains etc). I just wanted you to know that I kind of, although not fully, do understand what you must be going through. Tell your girl to hang in there. As for you mom, you are doing all you can for your girl. Keep pounding on doors and making a stink until the right person listens. I hope you find answers, and a solution, very quickly. [/QUOTE]
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