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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 420696" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Heather I thought that at first, too. But at my doctor appointment, he took over the conversation with the surgeon regarding his ankle. He didn't want me to use a waking cast...he wanted me to go straight to the little ankle support, passionately did not want that walking cast and when I later asked why, thinking he might have valid experience to share, he had nothing. In his mind, i just didn't need it. He has NEVER asked how</p><p>I'm doing. And out and about, if someone asks me something about it? He'll immediately answer for himself... The conversation can *never* be about me when it pertains to this. And his comment today? 'Thats it?' I had about 60'degrees of motion and lost close to 20. That's a third of he motion I had gone.</p><p>I dunno. Maybe I'm wrong but it sure feels like he can't have it not be about him. Don't know if it's competitive thing or attention or what, but it's very frustrating to have him literally never show concern.</p><p>And regardless I gotta find a way to deal with my anger without making things worse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 420696, member: 1848"] Heather I thought that at first, too. But at my doctor appointment, he took over the conversation with the surgeon regarding his ankle. He didn't want me to use a waking cast...he wanted me to go straight to the little ankle support, passionately did not want that walking cast and when I later asked why, thinking he might have valid experience to share, he had nothing. In his mind, i just didn't need it. He has NEVER asked how I'm doing. And out and about, if someone asks me something about it? He'll immediately answer for himself... The conversation can *never* be about me when it pertains to this. And his comment today? 'Thats it?' I had about 60'degrees of motion and lost close to 20. That's a third of he motion I had gone. I dunno. Maybe I'm wrong but it sure feels like he can't have it not be about him. Don't know if it's competitive thing or attention or what, but it's very frustrating to have him literally never show concern. And regardless I gotta find a way to deal with my anger without making things worse. [/QUOTE]
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