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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 746823" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Acacia I am sorry for your hard time. I too cave in to certain degrees not knowing how to stop or doing it out of desperation. Glad you told him to not contact you so you can have a break. A break is good and it gives you a chance to recharge.</em></p><p><em>If you see no change in him then you have to make the change within you to force him into making a change. I had to make the hard change within me to stop all contact with my daughter for 3 months. I did not see any improvement in her what so ever and when I bailed out it forced a change in her, slow but it forced her to live life without me and it was hard for her, it was hard for me too but I could not continue on the path I was on, not good for her or me. We can only do what we can to certain degrees, I let my daughter run all over me until I did not like who I was and I was tired of feeling bad all the time. I wish you the best.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 746823, member: 22416"] [I]Acacia I am sorry for your hard time. I too cave in to certain degrees not knowing how to stop or doing it out of desperation. Glad you told him to not contact you so you can have a break. A break is good and it gives you a chance to recharge. If you see no change in him then you have to make the change within you to force him into making a change. I had to make the hard change within me to stop all contact with my daughter for 3 months. I did not see any improvement in her what so ever and when I bailed out it forced a change in her, slow but it forced her to live life without me and it was hard for her, it was hard for me too but I could not continue on the path I was on, not good for her or me. We can only do what we can to certain degrees, I let my daughter run all over me until I did not like who I was and I was tired of feeling bad all the time. I wish you the best.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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