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Some days I just want to slap the teeth right out of his head
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<blockquote data-quote="SearchingForRainbows" data-source="post: 290935" data-attributes="member: 3388"><p>Mstang,</p><p></p><p>I feel the same way about difficult child 1. difficult child 1 honestly enjoys creating chaos and offending others. His psychiatrist has said numerous times that he doesn't have empathy for others. If not medicated, he can become violent. However, properly medicated, I don't believe he would physically hurt anyone.</p><p></p><p>I've NEVER trusted difficult child 1. He started stealing from me at a young age. I've always kept my purse, valuables hidden from him. While he can be "charming" when he wants something, he is only being this way in order to get what he wants. Sometimes he'll actually do something kind. However, later on, we've found out it's because he wants something in exchange for his kindness. With difficult child 1, there are always strings attached to his "good deeds."</p><p></p><p>difficult child 2 has absolutely no problem doing "twisted" things to others. When he gets angry, he'll smear the contents of his nose all over other peoples' belongings, door knobs, walls, etc. For example, if he thinks you're not looking, he'll sneeze directly on your food instead of turning away, and if caught, say it was an "accident." difficult child 2 has zillions of "accidents." difficult child 2 is the most passive/aggressive person I know. </p><p></p><p>The difference between difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 is that while I've been fearful of difficult child 1 in the past, I've never really been fearful of difficult child 2. Both difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 lack empathy. However, when angry, difficult child 2 will lash out without thinking and will physically harm you if given the opportunity. difficult child 1 will plan things - difficult child 2 is just a spur of the moment type of person. </p><p></p><p>I hope your difficult child graduates and you find him another place to live. Having difficult child 1 move out of our house has greatly reduced the amount of tension and chaos.</p><p></p><p>Sending lots of hugs... SFR</p><p></p><p>P.S. It's never too early to research living arrangements. Around here, there are waiting lists miles long for group homes, etc... As soon as our hearing is over, I'm going full steam ahead on trying to find living arrangements for difficult child 2 - He has two years before graduating high school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SearchingForRainbows, post: 290935, member: 3388"] Mstang, I feel the same way about difficult child 1. difficult child 1 honestly enjoys creating chaos and offending others. His psychiatrist has said numerous times that he doesn't have empathy for others. If not medicated, he can become violent. However, properly medicated, I don't believe he would physically hurt anyone. I've NEVER trusted difficult child 1. He started stealing from me at a young age. I've always kept my purse, valuables hidden from him. While he can be "charming" when he wants something, he is only being this way in order to get what he wants. Sometimes he'll actually do something kind. However, later on, we've found out it's because he wants something in exchange for his kindness. With difficult child 1, there are always strings attached to his "good deeds." difficult child 2 has absolutely no problem doing "twisted" things to others. When he gets angry, he'll smear the contents of his nose all over other peoples' belongings, door knobs, walls, etc. For example, if he thinks you're not looking, he'll sneeze directly on your food instead of turning away, and if caught, say it was an "accident." difficult child 2 has zillions of "accidents." difficult child 2 is the most passive/aggressive person I know. The difference between difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 is that while I've been fearful of difficult child 1 in the past, I've never really been fearful of difficult child 2. Both difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 lack empathy. However, when angry, difficult child 2 will lash out without thinking and will physically harm you if given the opportunity. difficult child 1 will plan things - difficult child 2 is just a spur of the moment type of person. I hope your difficult child graduates and you find him another place to live. Having difficult child 1 move out of our house has greatly reduced the amount of tension and chaos. Sending lots of hugs... SFR P.S. It's never too early to research living arrangements. Around here, there are waiting lists miles long for group homes, etc... As soon as our hearing is over, I'm going full steam ahead on trying to find living arrangements for difficult child 2 - He has two years before graduating high school. [/QUOTE]
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