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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 273321" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Sharon, I told difficult child that if my spouse spoke to me like he did that I would divorce him and I frequently put him in my place. If I spoke to him the way he was speaking to me(at they time) what would he do and how would he feel? </p><p>Reflecting back helps somewhat even if it isn't apparent. </p><p>I grew up in an environment where it was ok when angry to vomit up any sort of negative talk. Somehow, the justification that they were angry carries almost no weight with me. I'm not living with it as an adult. </p><p>I know different people have different levels of tolerance but if consequences don't work then you may need to try something else. Would easy child's therapist be an arbitrator to help you get through to easy child that it is not allowed to speak to you in such a belittling way. </p><p>by the way, you are beautiful with or without the new make up. Good for you for trying new stuff.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 273321, member: 3"] Sharon, I told difficult child that if my spouse spoke to me like he did that I would divorce him and I frequently put him in my place. If I spoke to him the way he was speaking to me(at they time) what would he do and how would he feel? Reflecting back helps somewhat even if it isn't apparent. I grew up in an environment where it was ok when angry to vomit up any sort of negative talk. Somehow, the justification that they were angry carries almost no weight with me. I'm not living with it as an adult. I know different people have different levels of tolerance but if consequences don't work then you may need to try something else. Would easy child's therapist be an arbitrator to help you get through to easy child that it is not allowed to speak to you in such a belittling way. by the way, you are beautiful with or without the new make up. Good for you for trying new stuff. [/QUOTE]
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