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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 42160" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>You know, I can tell you are frustrated. And I would bet that you are as frustrated with the school as you are with difficult child. I am also going to guess that this is not a black or white issue. </p><p></p><p>For example, the fact that he is seperated from the other students. Personally, I find nothing wrong with that. There are other kids in that class that the teacher needs to consider, and it probably benefits difficult child to not be distracted as well. If you are taking him out of class when you see that happen, the school may be seeing you as unreasonable. </p><p></p><p>Next example, being late for class after lunch. He was seven minutes late? Trust me, I am not picking on you or difficult child, I am just pointing this out: he could have left the lunch table a few minutes earlier, and made it to class on time. Seven minutes is a long time. </p><p></p><p>Now, I don't know why the school has a hard time with howing you when the tardies are. Maybe it is a build up of things. I'd march into the office, kicking <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> and taking names. But then I would accept what the answers are, if in fact it is your difficult child playing you like a fiddle. Kids do that. If they see that you are willing to advocate for them no matter what, oh heck yeah, they will play both sides of the fence. I bet the school is very frustrated as well.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry if this sounded harsh. I am sorry if it was not what you wanted to hear. I am praying very hard for you and your difficult child, and for the teachers and admin at the school as well. difficult child deserves to feel safe, and you deserve to feel peace. May it be so. </p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs your way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 42160, member: 3647"] You know, I can tell you are frustrated. And I would bet that you are as frustrated with the school as you are with difficult child. I am also going to guess that this is not a black or white issue. For example, the fact that he is seperated from the other students. Personally, I find nothing wrong with that. There are other kids in that class that the teacher needs to consider, and it probably benefits difficult child to not be distracted as well. If you are taking him out of class when you see that happen, the school may be seeing you as unreasonable. Next example, being late for class after lunch. He was seven minutes late? Trust me, I am not picking on you or difficult child, I am just pointing this out: he could have left the lunch table a few minutes earlier, and made it to class on time. Seven minutes is a long time. Now, I don't know why the school has a hard time with howing you when the tardies are. Maybe it is a build up of things. I'd march into the office, kicking :censored2: and taking names. But then I would accept what the answers are, if in fact it is your difficult child playing you like a fiddle. Kids do that. If they see that you are willing to advocate for them no matter what, oh heck yeah, they will play both sides of the fence. I bet the school is very frustrated as well. I am sorry if this sounded harsh. I am sorry if it was not what you wanted to hear. I am praying very hard for you and your difficult child, and for the teachers and admin at the school as well. difficult child deserves to feel safe, and you deserve to feel peace. May it be so. Gentle hugs your way. [/QUOTE]
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