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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 551388" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I'd say then for difficult child, at least, they should be out of that house before they marry. Living with someone else is a stressor. Living with your future in laws is a huge stressor. It's going to eventually do damage to the relationship, especially if it's already bothering her this much. </p><p></p><p>Nichole never "lived" with her husband's parents. But up until a few years ago boyfriend did and they spent the majority of their time in that house. Nichole and her mother in law clashed at times, Nichole had no patience with the woman whatsoever. Now that they've had their own place all this time.......Nichole is seeing mother in law is not such a bad person. Oh, she has her annoying quirks and such, but overall, Nichole is seeing her differently......learning things are not always as they seem on the surface and is very slowly developing a new different relationship with her. </p><p></p><p>It was having the controlling in your face behavior right there all the time that was driving Nichole nuts. Having their own place let Nichole place boundaries. And she certainly sticks to them. lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 551388, member: 84"] I'd say then for difficult child, at least, they should be out of that house before they marry. Living with someone else is a stressor. Living with your future in laws is a huge stressor. It's going to eventually do damage to the relationship, especially if it's already bothering her this much. Nichole never "lived" with her husband's parents. But up until a few years ago boyfriend did and they spent the majority of their time in that house. Nichole and her mother in law clashed at times, Nichole had no patience with the woman whatsoever. Now that they've had their own place all this time.......Nichole is seeing mother in law is not such a bad person. Oh, she has her annoying quirks and such, but overall, Nichole is seeing her differently......learning things are not always as they seem on the surface and is very slowly developing a new different relationship with her. It was having the controlling in your face behavior right there all the time that was driving Nichole nuts. Having their own place let Nichole place boundaries. And she certainly sticks to them. lol [/QUOTE]
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