Gee, I think "Barb" should have hung up the phone.
Seriously, Barbara, my difficult child tried that once and I let her know that it was either "mom" or she shouldn't even call. She never did it again.
I hope this doesn't sound too harsh but he can only treat you like you let him treat you. Don't let him do this.
Read the book that I told you about. I think it would help you see what he is doing to you and your husband. I'm glad that you see his manipulation, though. That is a great first step.
Remember that we are all right here behind you.
~Kathy
