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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 27612" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Barbara, I understand the grieving. I think all of us have grieved or are grieving or re-grieve the "what might have been" relationship we don't have with our kids.</p><p></p><p>It is the following thoughts that I was referring to earlier with the beating yourself up:</p><p></p><p> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I feel like a cheap imitation of a mother, this morning.</p><p></p><p>It is hard not to fall into those kinds of "if I had been a better mother, this would not be happening" feelings; </div></div></p><p></p><p>I say this with much affection, Barbara--- it has been my observation that you have continued to run these tapes over and over, like you are "stuck" in this negative self-talk for as long as I've known you. And I worry when one of my PE family members seems to be stuck. You mentioned the possibility of depression for yourself. Perhaps it is time to see a doctor and get evaluated?</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 27612, member: 29"] Barbara, I understand the grieving. I think all of us have grieved or are grieving or re-grieve the "what might have been" relationship we don't have with our kids. It is the following thoughts that I was referring to earlier with the beating yourself up: <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I feel like a cheap imitation of a mother, this morning. It is hard not to fall into those kinds of "if I had been a better mother, this would not be happening" feelings; </div></div> I say this with much affection, Barbara--- it has been my observation that you have continued to run these tapes over and over, like you are "stuck" in this negative self-talk for as long as I've known you. And I worry when one of my PE family members seems to be stuck. You mentioned the possibility of depression for yourself. Perhaps it is time to see a doctor and get evaluated? Suz [/QUOTE]
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