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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 405249" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>i agree with-you 100% unfortunately the school is making me jump thru hoops yet again. they called today i need her discharge paperwork, a whole treatment plan for future here in new york which the place didnt' give me.</p><p> </p><p>they also want a diagnosis again, a time frame tutors needed until. yet on the flip side they are pushing for the 504 meeting now. i had to put it off in writing two times due to both hospitalizations. their calling me back with-a date which i'm sure will be soon. so i'm gearing up so i am prepared. at the mtg. they want to know what difficult child's educational future will be and the transitional plan to get her back into the building. let's remember same school that yes did call cps on me i found out, and also the same school that i had to fight for provisions on 504 and had to fight for a 504 for 3 years because they didnt' want to give anything extra.</p><p> </p><p>it's a heavily funded we have alot of money in this school district, the teacher's salaries here are 110k some of them a year. the lower end newer ones are like 60. they just dont' want to spend the money their actually known for it.</p><p> </p><p>what will probably wind up happening is husband and i will have to go private with her if they push the plan too soon. i'm all about let's see what she can do, yet once supports are in place and we have a clearly defined plan on at what point do we say enough is enough. i would think after since 3rd grade mainstreaming her isnt' working we are at that point. </p><p> </p><p>i spoke to a mom whose on the Special Education board today. she said what theyll do is theyll put her in resource, difficult child will get pulled out thru day than when that doesn't work and she's still floundering assuming that's what she'll do they'll put her in self contained classroom Special Education with physically handicapped kids. she said bluntly jen there is and have never been provisions for children like ours in this school and there never will be. i fought it it's just too hard. her son has autism and she had to pay for private schooling because she fought and fought and got no where.her youngest is in difficult child's grade now has anxiety issues yet manages.</p><p> </p><p>she told me look for private schools in area, get the stats bring that into mtg. with as much doctor back up as you can. so that's what i'm going to do now.</p><p> </p><p>by the way she's doing awesome i'm happy to say she really is. ate each meal today without a fight or anything. has gone to bed on time past two nights since home. my changing my approach and this medication are working really well. so far so good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 405249, member: 4514"] hi i agree with-you 100% unfortunately the school is making me jump thru hoops yet again. they called today i need her discharge paperwork, a whole treatment plan for future here in new york which the place didnt' give me. they also want a diagnosis again, a time frame tutors needed until. yet on the flip side they are pushing for the 504 meeting now. i had to put it off in writing two times due to both hospitalizations. their calling me back with-a date which i'm sure will be soon. so i'm gearing up so i am prepared. at the mtg. they want to know what difficult child's educational future will be and the transitional plan to get her back into the building. let's remember same school that yes did call cps on me i found out, and also the same school that i had to fight for provisions on 504 and had to fight for a 504 for 3 years because they didnt' want to give anything extra. it's a heavily funded we have alot of money in this school district, the teacher's salaries here are 110k some of them a year. the lower end newer ones are like 60. they just dont' want to spend the money their actually known for it. what will probably wind up happening is husband and i will have to go private with her if they push the plan too soon. i'm all about let's see what she can do, yet once supports are in place and we have a clearly defined plan on at what point do we say enough is enough. i would think after since 3rd grade mainstreaming her isnt' working we are at that point. i spoke to a mom whose on the Special Education board today. she said what theyll do is theyll put her in resource, difficult child will get pulled out thru day than when that doesn't work and she's still floundering assuming that's what she'll do they'll put her in self contained classroom Special Education with physically handicapped kids. she said bluntly jen there is and have never been provisions for children like ours in this school and there never will be. i fought it it's just too hard. her son has autism and she had to pay for private schooling because she fought and fought and got no where.her youngest is in difficult child's grade now has anxiety issues yet manages. she told me look for private schools in area, get the stats bring that into mtg. with as much doctor back up as you can. so that's what i'm going to do now. by the way she's doing awesome i'm happy to say she really is. ate each meal today without a fight or anything. has gone to bed on time past two nights since home. my changing my approach and this medication are working really well. so far so good. [/QUOTE]
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