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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 490754" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I called attny back to try to make sure some of this was absolutely clear before she spoke with anyone else, including that IF the only two things being considered are the long term or coming home (and that's my understanding), then I want difficult child coming home, even though I know it's not my decision and I know that's potentially going to have it's own set of problems, I'll just have to deal with that as they come up. Also, I wanted to make sure she remembered that the whole reason the VC was set up with difficult child next week was because they hadn't cast the parole plan in stone yet, at least that's what i was told. So, if it has been cast in stone, then why are we going thru this? Also, I told her that sending difficult child home with a 20-something mentor talking to difficult child about "it's not right to hit your m,other" and that being their idea for addressing domestic violence seemed so absurd to me that I don't know if they are doing that just to force my hand or get me to buy into the GH idea or what, but I would hope if difficult child comes to live with me, ordered services would be reasonable and feasible and simple enough to be doable.</p><p></p><p>She said she understood and couldn't gaurantee anything but would try to talk to these people and get somewhere with it before Christmas.</p><p></p><p>I'm with you on this one, DDD. Unfortunately, common sense doesn't seem to be the strong point in this state's juvie CSU. I did have a light bulb moment a couple of days ago though. I'll see if I can articulate it well enough to post about sometime in the near future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 490754, member: 3699"] I called attny back to try to make sure some of this was absolutely clear before she spoke with anyone else, including that IF the only two things being considered are the long term or coming home (and that's my understanding), then I want difficult child coming home, even though I know it's not my decision and I know that's potentially going to have it's own set of problems, I'll just have to deal with that as they come up. Also, I wanted to make sure she remembered that the whole reason the VC was set up with difficult child next week was because they hadn't cast the parole plan in stone yet, at least that's what i was told. So, if it has been cast in stone, then why are we going thru this? Also, I told her that sending difficult child home with a 20-something mentor talking to difficult child about "it's not right to hit your m,other" and that being their idea for addressing domestic violence seemed so absurd to me that I don't know if they are doing that just to force my hand or get me to buy into the GH idea or what, but I would hope if difficult child comes to live with me, ordered services would be reasonable and feasible and simple enough to be doable. She said she understood and couldn't gaurantee anything but would try to talk to these people and get somewhere with it before Christmas. I'm with you on this one, DDD. Unfortunately, common sense doesn't seem to be the strong point in this state's juvie CSU. I did have a light bulb moment a couple of days ago though. I'll see if I can articulate it well enough to post about sometime in the near future. [/QUOTE]
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