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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 141321" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I dunno if it is because I was primarily raised by my grandmother or what. But honestly I can say that up unil just a few years ago husband was put first.</p><p> </p><p>This doesn't mean that if the situation called for it that I didn't put the kids first. Because I would without hesitation.</p><p> </p><p>So what changed?</p><p> </p><p>I finally realized that husband believes he is the center of the Universe, and nothing will ever change it. When I realized that he never loved/cared about me the way I did him, or even the way most people care about each other, especially spouses.</p><p> </p><p>I guess I fell out of love with the man. I still care about him. But the love is gone. phhhht.</p><p> </p><p>These last few years I haven't given a hoot about his needs. I cook when and if I feel like it. If he wants his laundry done, odds are he'd better do it himself. It goes on and on. We're more like two friends living in the same house than husband and wife. </p><p> </p><p>husband is honestly bewildered by my change in attitude and behavior. Although I've explained it to him ad nausem. I no longer waste my breath.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 141321, member: 84"] I dunno if it is because I was primarily raised by my grandmother or what. But honestly I can say that up unil just a few years ago husband was put first. This doesn't mean that if the situation called for it that I didn't put the kids first. Because I would without hesitation. So what changed? I finally realized that husband believes he is the center of the Universe, and nothing will ever change it. When I realized that he never loved/cared about me the way I did him, or even the way most people care about each other, especially spouses. I guess I fell out of love with the man. I still care about him. But the love is gone. phhhht. These last few years I haven't given a hoot about his needs. I cook when and if I feel like it. If he wants his laundry done, odds are he'd better do it himself. It goes on and on. We're more like two friends living in the same house than husband and wife. husband is honestly bewildered by my change in attitude and behavior. Although I've explained it to him ad nausem. I no longer waste my breath. [/QUOTE]
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