Jody,
read this link click here
This should provide you the info you need to go into the IEP aware of the answers before you ask the questions.
That website in general has a plethora of info tailored to Special Education needs.
If he qualifies for the Special Education daycare, they have to provide transportation for it. My oldest initially qualified as Special Education under speech, I had her evaluated and she then qualified under anxiety, speech, and physical therapy for the half day program. She was diagnosed Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)-not otherwise specified to start with, with the triad of speech articulation problems, gross motor delays, and social skills delays.