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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 749350" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Yes he took a picture of the bill because it had my email on it since for the last few years I had paid it because I was a co-signer and well I just paid it. Even when his girlfriend was living there and she made a nice amount he sent me the bill. I should have stopped paying it then but stupidly thought I was helping. </p><p>Thank you all for your thoughts. I see better now. Like it was stated he is disrespectful and doesn’t treat us well at all. There was no Thank u at Easter when I sent a small gift or at Christmas. There was no Happy Mother’s or Father’s Day either. I shouldn’t feel the way I do because he sure treats us like crap. My parents paid on some of his credit cards a few months ago when he was in sober living with the agreement he would pay them pack just a small amount monthly... he has only called them once since then. I understand he feels shame for what he did then leaving sober living and relapsing and then charging his credit cards back up again. There will be no help from them anymore that is for sure.</p><p>I don’t have a clue if he is back to smoking weed or drinking either. </p><p></p><p>Letting him make it on his own and paying off the bills he created would be the best for him. I lost my son many years ago. It feels like I don’t even have one. Still paying on all the bills from flying out to help him when he went into detox, sober living, etc. so why I get the urge to help him more when we still owe plenty is beyond me... Like someone said I guess it’s a way for me to stay in touch. </p><p></p><p>As for telling him about his grandfathers health issues or our dog, he doesn't return calls and I don't feel sending a text is the right way to tell him. </p><p>Thank you all again. I needed to hear from u all. I love this site and the help it provides.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 749350, member: 22817"] Yes he took a picture of the bill because it had my email on it since for the last few years I had paid it because I was a co-signer and well I just paid it. Even when his girlfriend was living there and she made a nice amount he sent me the bill. I should have stopped paying it then but stupidly thought I was helping. Thank you all for your thoughts. I see better now. Like it was stated he is disrespectful and doesn’t treat us well at all. There was no Thank u at Easter when I sent a small gift or at Christmas. There was no Happy Mother’s or Father’s Day either. I shouldn’t feel the way I do because he sure treats us like crap. My parents paid on some of his credit cards a few months ago when he was in sober living with the agreement he would pay them pack just a small amount monthly... he has only called them once since then. I understand he feels shame for what he did then leaving sober living and relapsing and then charging his credit cards back up again. There will be no help from them anymore that is for sure. I don’t have a clue if he is back to smoking weed or drinking either. Letting him make it on his own and paying off the bills he created would be the best for him. I lost my son many years ago. It feels like I don’t even have one. Still paying on all the bills from flying out to help him when he went into detox, sober living, etc. so why I get the urge to help him more when we still owe plenty is beyond me... Like someone said I guess it’s a way for me to stay in touch. As for telling him about his grandfathers health issues or our dog, he doesn't return calls and I don't feel sending a text is the right way to tell him. Thank you all again. I needed to hear from u all. I love this site and the help it provides. [/QUOTE]
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