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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 749412" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Thank you all for your advice. I read everyone's reply and also went to Al anon Wednesday evening. It was stated how God seems to bring you to where you need to be to hear what you need to hear. The discussion at Al anon happened to be to take care of yourself and not feel like you have to help everyone. To let them feel what it is to struggle and become stronger. It went right along with the advice from all of you. I didn't cave then so very close but I waited it out and oh so glad I did. Today I went on to check his calls on his cell phone and he called a weed store again. So he is using and is not sober. I don't know if he is doing both weed and booze but it doesn't matter. I did find out from a contact at his work that he has been going to work and not missing time. I was so ready to "reward" him for that by paying a bill but nope. Besides, that's what adults do... we go to work and pay our bills. </p><p>He did send me an article about certain dog food not being healthy for dogs but I didn't reply. My heart sank because he has no clue our boy is gone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 749412, member: 22817"] Thank you all for your advice. I read everyone's reply and also went to Al anon Wednesday evening. It was stated how God seems to bring you to where you need to be to hear what you need to hear. The discussion at Al anon happened to be to take care of yourself and not feel like you have to help everyone. To let them feel what it is to struggle and become stronger. It went right along with the advice from all of you. I didn't cave then so very close but I waited it out and oh so glad I did. Today I went on to check his calls on his cell phone and he called a weed store again. So he is using and is not sober. I don't know if he is doing both weed and booze but it doesn't matter. I did find out from a contact at his work that he has been going to work and not missing time. I was so ready to "reward" him for that by paying a bill but nope. Besides, that's what adults do... we go to work and pay our bills. He did send me an article about certain dog food not being healthy for dogs but I didn't reply. My heart sank because he has no clue our boy is gone. [/QUOTE]
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