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<blockquote data-quote="TYLERFAN" data-source="post: 87623" data-attributes="member: 26"><p>Hi Family:</p><p></p><p>So, just 6 days after signing the new "Consent Order" with the court, she has missed her first new drug test since the last relapse, at the courthouse (court is supervising Urine tests), or should I say they are completely ineffective at monitoring difficult child's Urine tests. This means , no urine test , no consequences of the court. :smile: :hypnosis:</p><p>Anyway, she said she would go Tuesday, no go :nonono:</p><p>Today our conversation went something like this:</p><p>"difficult child have you gone to your drug test?"</p><p>No, mom I forgot about Monday and Tuesday I had no ride.....she didn't mention today, Wednesday. :hammer:</p><p>She says: "I'll go next Monday" WTH?</p><p> :grrr:</p><p>My husband says ...That's it, she blew it...she will not see J. I say, he's right but he is going to have to tell her as I can hear the expletives now :ill: :nonono:</p><p>I know in my heart she isn't right and she is probably using. </p><p>To answer a few questions that were asked:</p><p>Her "Sober" friend with whom she last relapsed is the one who got her this job at the sober house. It is supposed to be 1 year sober to run a house and you would be surprised how rare a thing that is....the ones who may be candidates aren't in a sober house and don't require one, so basically they take whom they can find with the most time....a sad commentary.</p><p>I guess I feel like I'm stuck in the middle, if I accuse and am wrong, I will never hear the end...but she did sniff alot on the phone tonight and seemed congested. Do I need a Boulder to fall on me?....NO...How depressing.</p><p>This will never end.</p><p>Prayerful: I have Loved my daughter thru things unimaginable, it's not about Love, my Love for her is unconditional. What I will not do is let her destroy me as she destroys herself.</p><p>DDD: All that matters is ME, husband and J, your so right. I will focus and re-focus on that...meanwhile I expect some rough waters coming with difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Blessings,</p><p>Melissa :flower:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TYLERFAN, post: 87623, member: 26"] Hi Family: So, just 6 days after signing the new "Consent Order" with the court, she has missed her first new drug test since the last relapse, at the courthouse (court is supervising Urine tests), or should I say they are completely ineffective at monitoring difficult child's Urine tests. This means , no urine test , no consequences of the court. [img]:smile:[/img] [img]:hypnosis:[/img] Anyway, she said she would go Tuesday, no go [img]:nonono:[/img] Today our conversation went something like this: "difficult child have you gone to your drug test?" No, mom I forgot about Monday and Tuesday I had no ride.....she didn't mention today, Wednesday. [img]:hammer:[/img] She says: "I'll go next Monday" WTH? [img]:grrr:[/img] My husband says ...That's it, she blew it...she will not see J. I say, he's right but he is going to have to tell her as I can hear the expletives now [img]:ill:[/img] [img]:nonono:[/img] I know in my heart she isn't right and she is probably using. To answer a few questions that were asked: Her "Sober" friend with whom she last relapsed is the one who got her this job at the sober house. It is supposed to be 1 year sober to run a house and you would be surprised how rare a thing that is....the ones who may be candidates aren't in a sober house and don't require one, so basically they take whom they can find with the most time....a sad commentary. I guess I feel like I'm stuck in the middle, if I accuse and am wrong, I will never hear the end...but she did sniff alot on the phone tonight and seemed congested. Do I need a Boulder to fall on me?....NO...How depressing. This will never end. Prayerful: I have Loved my daughter thru things unimaginable, it's not about Love, my Love for her is unconditional. What I will not do is let her destroy me as she destroys herself. DDD: All that matters is ME, husband and J, your so right. I will focus and re-focus on that...meanwhile I expect some rough waters coming with difficult child. Blessings, Melissa [img]:flower:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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