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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 520845" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Janet - are you trying to drive your own blood pressure up? or keep an even keel?</p><p>Maybe it's just me, but... I have a tendency to over-personalize stuff, and I'm learning that it doesn't pay. It is VERY easy to look at the situation, and "connect the dots", but... the "dots" may not even exist, and the connections may be totally invalid. Doing it on purpose? Yes, there IS a chance that it is true. However... it is also possible that it was just how things went, and it was NOT directed at you personally. If they were just targetting you, then why would they be making it tough for Billy? At any rate, <u>you</u> gain more by NOT treating it that way. </p><p></p><p>For next time... you could try modeling for the rest of them how to politely and appropriately handle it when the food prepared is not to your tastes or diet.</p><p></p><p>I know this whole situation is not easy. And I'm not living in it. Just tossing out ideas that have helped in our own situation...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 520845, member: 11791"] Janet - are you trying to drive your own blood pressure up? or keep an even keel? Maybe it's just me, but... I have a tendency to over-personalize stuff, and I'm learning that it doesn't pay. It is VERY easy to look at the situation, and "connect the dots", but... the "dots" may not even exist, and the connections may be totally invalid. Doing it on purpose? Yes, there IS a chance that it is true. However... it is also possible that it was just how things went, and it was NOT directed at you personally. If they were just targetting you, then why would they be making it tough for Billy? At any rate, [U]you[/U] gain more by NOT treating it that way. For next time... you could try modeling for the rest of them how to politely and appropriately handle it when the food prepared is not to your tastes or diet. I know this whole situation is not easy. And I'm not living in it. Just tossing out ideas that have helped in our own situation... [/QUOTE]
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