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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 524608" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Not sure how to say this without sounding accusatory, because that's not my intention. It's more a process YOU need to go through. You said you were suspecting all along, and now for some reason you think she's lying. My only concern would be is if you had continually asked her if she had been abused. If you did, and she repeatedly told you no, and now is saying yes, then yeah, difficult to know the truth. However, if you kept you suspicions to yourself and she told you all this of her own volition, then I would believe her 100%. Anyway, YOU still need to process this and a certain amount of denial or "wish I was wrong" is to be expected. Please don't let any of that cloud your judgement and your helping her. That's YOUR process to work through.</p><p></p><p>Yes, much of it may not make sense. Chronology could be off. This isn't the kind of stuff one tries to remember. Ppl try to block this type of stuff out, so the memories can definitely get muddled. The details may not be clear. Yeah, they may not all be there. This is the first she's spoken of it. She may only be telling you about the tip of the iceberg. She's got to feel she can trust you before she's going to give up all her deepest darkest secrets to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 524608, member: 11965"] Not sure how to say this without sounding accusatory, because that's not my intention. It's more a process YOU need to go through. You said you were suspecting all along, and now for some reason you think she's lying. My only concern would be is if you had continually asked her if she had been abused. If you did, and she repeatedly told you no, and now is saying yes, then yeah, difficult to know the truth. However, if you kept you suspicions to yourself and she told you all this of her own volition, then I would believe her 100%. Anyway, YOU still need to process this and a certain amount of denial or "wish I was wrong" is to be expected. Please don't let any of that cloud your judgement and your helping her. That's YOUR process to work through. Yes, much of it may not make sense. Chronology could be off. This isn't the kind of stuff one tries to remember. Ppl try to block this type of stuff out, so the memories can definitely get muddled. The details may not be clear. Yeah, they may not all be there. This is the first she's spoken of it. She may only be telling you about the tip of the iceberg. She's got to feel she can trust you before she's going to give up all her deepest darkest secrets to you. [/QUOTE]
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