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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 524636" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>When we found out my Onyxx had been molested, too, it was horrible. All the puzzle pieces that didn't fit anywhere else, fit together suddenly. And husband and I beat ourselves up for not figuring it out sooner. Especially with him being accused so many times! I still feel twinges of guilt - but - I never went through that - how would I know?!</p><p></p><p>Onyxx has been known to lie about other things - but this - well, for one, the story is <em>still</em> the same (we had one period of time when she said it never happened, but that was quickly wiped out). It's by no means complete, and she has HUGE gaps in her memory from about ages 11 to almost 14. Because you see, to block out the awful stuff, she had to block out anything <em>leading</em> to the awful stuff.</p><p></p><p>Your SD really, really, really needs therapy - the earlier she can get this out and dealt with, the better things will be down the road. And I think so far you have done great, but now - now her Dad needs to step up, too. (I hate the whole stepmom thing, we have all the responsibilities but none of the rights, Know what I mean??)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 524636, member: 6705"] :hugs: When we found out my Onyxx had been molested, too, it was horrible. All the puzzle pieces that didn't fit anywhere else, fit together suddenly. And husband and I beat ourselves up for not figuring it out sooner. Especially with him being accused so many times! I still feel twinges of guilt - but - I never went through that - how would I know?! Onyxx has been known to lie about other things - but this - well, for one, the story is [I]still[/I] the same (we had one period of time when she said it never happened, but that was quickly wiped out). It's by no means complete, and she has HUGE gaps in her memory from about ages 11 to almost 14. Because you see, to block out the awful stuff, she had to block out anything [I]leading[/I] to the awful stuff. Your SD really, really, really needs therapy - the earlier she can get this out and dealt with, the better things will be down the road. And I think so far you have done great, but now - now her Dad needs to step up, too. (I hate the whole stepmom thing, we have all the responsibilities but none of the rights, Know what I mean??) [/QUOTE]
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