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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 525169" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>TF - I can understand your doubts but let me give you another perspective... And it's going to be a little graphic.</p><p></p><p>If a child were fondled or raped, and knew that going to an OB-GYN would result in someone poking around "down there" - the <em>same area</em> - do you think they'd want <em>anyone</em> touching? Knowing that it is uncomfortable/hurts? It took FOREVER to get Onyxx to submit to an OB exam. Literally 3 years. And this is part of the reason (not all) why her abuser is walking free.</p><p></p><p>You could be singing my song, hon.</p><p></p><p>And it's highly likely you don't know the whole story. You probably do not want to - the details will stick in your head. It's not fun. This is why she HAS to have counseling. Writing things down is a way of getting them out of her head. Might be true, might not. And not remembering is a defense mechanism.</p><p></p><p>This is something the professionals should work on...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 525169, member: 6705"] TF - I can understand your doubts but let me give you another perspective... And it's going to be a little graphic. If a child were fondled or raped, and knew that going to an OB-GYN would result in someone poking around "down there" - the [I]same area[/I] - do you think they'd want [I]anyone[/I] touching? Knowing that it is uncomfortable/hurts? It took FOREVER to get Onyxx to submit to an OB exam. Literally 3 years. And this is part of the reason (not all) why her abuser is walking free. You could be singing my song, hon. And it's highly likely you don't know the whole story. You probably do not want to - the details will stick in your head. It's not fun. This is why she HAS to have counseling. Writing things down is a way of getting them out of her head. Might be true, might not. And not remembering is a defense mechanism. This is something the professionals should work on... [/QUOTE]
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