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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 286414" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I think that if free room and board is making him think that he's free to help himself to anything else he wants, as well, it's probably too much to offer. </p><p></p><p>Whose names are the cars in? If it is in your step-son's name, then if he doesn't make the payment he suffers the natural consequence of losing the car. If it's in your name and he isn't making payments, you should probably sell the car. Those are natural consequences that the rest of the world learns their lessons from. You shouldn't go without because your step-son wants a free ride. Believe me, I know how bad this can get.</p><p></p><p>On a side note, if he says he doesn't have any money, but has money to party and go to Europe, your step-son has illicit money. I would encourage you to figure out where it's coming from, and if it is from something illegal, to make sure that none of that illegal activity is even remotely happening in your home. You could lose everything.</p><p></p><p>I'm sure that others will have lots of advice, too. Good luck to you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 286414, member: 99"] I think that if free room and board is making him think that he's free to help himself to anything else he wants, as well, it's probably too much to offer. Whose names are the cars in? If it is in your step-son's name, then if he doesn't make the payment he suffers the natural consequence of losing the car. If it's in your name and he isn't making payments, you should probably sell the car. Those are natural consequences that the rest of the world learns their lessons from. You shouldn't go without because your step-son wants a free ride. Believe me, I know how bad this can get. On a side note, if he says he doesn't have any money, but has money to party and go to Europe, your step-son has illicit money. I would encourage you to figure out where it's coming from, and if it is from something illegal, to make sure that none of that illegal activity is even remotely happening in your home. You could lose everything. I'm sure that others will have lots of advice, too. Good luck to you all. [/QUOTE]
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