Normal
If all of the love shown by parents who post on this board could have “fixed and rescued” our wayward adult children they would have been fixed and rescued. Sadly that is not the case. They have to design their own lives and face the consequences of their choices. What we do have control over is loving and healing ourselves. I think we need to love ourselves enough to let the toxicity go. That is a really hard step and goal but we are so worth fighting for. Hugs to all of you warrior parents!