I definitely understand that! But we are not the enemy, we did not cause any of this though they will use this as their defense time and time again. They will never take responsibility for their own actions, my daughter does no wrong. An example.
She was pulled over for drunk driving but, not her fault because her passenger had weed. I went to the courthouse and had gotten a copy of what happened, she was swerving all over the road, several people called about it. From the jail phone call I laid into her…not your fault?!?! All she said was….well?????
So please, think in the other direction. THEY and only they are to be held responsible, not you. When you hear that negativity turn the conversation around if you ever see him again.
My daughter is the same all or nothing. She did not get her way at my house, she left. But oh the consequences of her actions.
