All of us do. But underneath that is the sense if I can just take the blame, and it's all my fault, then maybe I can fix it. But that doesn't work. We have no control .You can't fix your daughter. You know that.
My son is adopted. His birth grandmother had already taken in 4 or 5 of his siblings, babies of her drug-addicted, homeless daughter, by the time my son was born. She could not take in more babies. He was taken from his mother at 2 weeks. I found him when he was 22 months.
Look around you at the suffering in this world. Is all of it your fault? Let this go. People do as they do. Free yourself. You don't deserve more suffering. It's enough already. It's not your fault.
I am glad you are here. Keep posting. it helps.
