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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 591967" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Oh Boy Dash, I so hear you. Each step of their remarkable life of bad choices is yet another step for us to let go........sigh.......and the worry and fear is right there stuck in your chest and stomach................I know. </p><p></p><p>I can't dispense of that fear for you, but I can tell you that with each step, as you get used to it a little, as she moves through it a little, you can breathe and let go a little. Over time, you adapt, amazingly, and get used to her living in these strange circumstances with these odd characters that reside in the land of gfgdom. She will likely move again, and again, and maybe again, as the reality becomes clear and connections break apart. I don't know how they do it, but somehow they always find somewhere to land. </p><p></p><p>I hope she learns something and finds that this is unacceptable and that she becomes willing to get help and change. Our fears for their safety are profound, I hear you........... all I can tell you to do is to pray, surround her with your love, repeat the serenity prayer, go to one of your groups, keep breathing................ <em>this too shall pass</em>. Sending you so many warm, caring wishes and many gentle hugs..............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 591967, member: 13542"] Oh Boy Dash, I so hear you. Each step of their remarkable life of bad choices is yet another step for us to let go........sigh.......and the worry and fear is right there stuck in your chest and stomach................I know. I can't dispense of that fear for you, but I can tell you that with each step, as you get used to it a little, as she moves through it a little, you can breathe and let go a little. Over time, you adapt, amazingly, and get used to her living in these strange circumstances with these odd characters that reside in the land of gfgdom. She will likely move again, and again, and maybe again, as the reality becomes clear and connections break apart. I don't know how they do it, but somehow they always find somewhere to land. I hope she learns something and finds that this is unacceptable and that she becomes willing to get help and change. Our fears for their safety are profound, I hear you........... all I can tell you to do is to pray, surround her with your love, repeat the serenity prayer, go to one of your groups, keep breathing................ [I]this too shall pass[/I]. Sending you so many warm, caring wishes and many gentle hugs.............. [/QUOTE]
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