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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 750389" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I would urge you to protect yourself and the baby by filing for legal custody, as suggested Busy. Nobody could tolerate what your daughter is putting you through. Whether or not she means it or not, or it is just a way to destabilize you and to feel powerful, who could live like this? It's cruel and irresponsible and malicious. And if you do not have legal paperwork she could take the baby. Any time she wants.</p><p></p><p>Was it you a couple of weeks ago who was telling us, that she was talking about taking the baby so that she could secure lower cost housing?</p><p></p><p>Please go to an attorney. If you do not want to raise the child, think about involving CPS so that authorities are involved to help this child to have stability. </p><p></p><p>The other way to look at this is the way Eliza handled it. Surrender the baby to your daughter, and perhaps she might step up. And call CPS if she does not. So that there is a paper trail to protect the baby.</p><p></p><p>Right now, you and the baby are potential victims of your daughter. At any time and in any way that she chooses. She views this baby as either a pawn or a chit or a way to make money or to coerce or to threaten you, to empower herself.</p><p></p><p>The worst possible thing is to continue this way, in my view.</p><p></p><p>I am so, so sorry you find yourself in this painful and difficult circumstance.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 750389, member: 18958"] I would urge you to protect yourself and the baby by filing for legal custody, as suggested Busy. Nobody could tolerate what your daughter is putting you through. Whether or not she means it or not, or it is just a way to destabilize you and to feel powerful, who could live like this? It's cruel and irresponsible and malicious. And if you do not have legal paperwork she could take the baby. Any time she wants. Was it you a couple of weeks ago who was telling us, that she was talking about taking the baby so that she could secure lower cost housing? Please go to an attorney. If you do not want to raise the child, think about involving CPS so that authorities are involved to help this child to have stability. The other way to look at this is the way Eliza handled it. Surrender the baby to your daughter, and perhaps she might step up. And call CPS if she does not. So that there is a paper trail to protect the baby. Right now, you and the baby are potential victims of your daughter. At any time and in any way that she chooses. She views this baby as either a pawn or a chit or a way to make money or to coerce or to threaten you, to empower herself. The worst possible thing is to continue this way, in my view. I am so, so sorry you find yourself in this painful and difficult circumstance. [/QUOTE]
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